"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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getting unnatural around female friends now

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princesimba

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Its getting ridiculous

Couple weeks ago i came here to post about how i no longer have the confidence to relax and talk normally around my oneitis anymore

Which i guess is normal

Now i cant even talk normally around two my best female friends anymore.
And I dont even find them hot. I just dont feel relaxed around them anymore.
I have become such a beta, and all the "interesting" things i used to say/do now become "irritating", even to me

I know the both of them always wanted bang me in the past. Obviously not anymore, after my beta behaviour towards them recently.

Now i feel horrible. Like my last sources of validation are gone.

Oneitis is a horrible disease. Help
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cupioz

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Quarantine IMMEDIATELY - is something pook would say i guess.
But seriously:
Don Juan Bible
every day.
And get yourself a variety of "things to do"
 
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