Hi,
I am 16 years old and a junior in high school.
The problem I have is my self-esteem and im very shy around girls. I am never shy when it comes to talkin with guys and my friends and other people I dont know. The problem lies when I try to talk to a girl.
For some reason in the mornings my self-esteem is very good.
I get up in the morning get all ready for school feeling really good.
In class I usually talk with a few girls around me very easily.
However, by the time I get back from lunch usually about 11:30 my self-esteem has slowed way down and I am back to begin shy again.
I am a good looking guy some girls have even commented by calling me hott and cute. I also drive to school and I know girls like a guy that has a car. I dont know if that is good though.
I always catch girls looking at me but then quickly looking away.
I know by reading the DJ bible that this is a good sign.
I should go over and talk to them.
But I just never get the courage to do it.
I worry that they wont like me, or they already have a bf, or i wont know what to say to them.
I always end up saying to myself Ill do it the next day and it never happens.
I really want a gf b4 I turn 17, I will turn it on April 29th.
Do any of you know any ways I could build my self-esteem and courage? Is there some kinda legal herb or vitamin that I could take that would keep my self-esteem and nervousness around girls to a minimum?
Also, is it ok for a junior to date a freshman?
Thanks
I am 16 years old and a junior in high school.
The problem I have is my self-esteem and im very shy around girls. I am never shy when it comes to talkin with guys and my friends and other people I dont know. The problem lies when I try to talk to a girl.
For some reason in the mornings my self-esteem is very good.
I get up in the morning get all ready for school feeling really good.
In class I usually talk with a few girls around me very easily.
However, by the time I get back from lunch usually about 11:30 my self-esteem has slowed way down and I am back to begin shy again.
I am a good looking guy some girls have even commented by calling me hott and cute. I also drive to school and I know girls like a guy that has a car. I dont know if that is good though.
I always catch girls looking at me but then quickly looking away.
I know by reading the DJ bible that this is a good sign.
I should go over and talk to them.
But I just never get the courage to do it.
I worry that they wont like me, or they already have a bf, or i wont know what to say to them.
I always end up saying to myself Ill do it the next day and it never happens.
I really want a gf b4 I turn 17, I will turn it on April 29th.
Do any of you know any ways I could build my self-esteem and courage? Is there some kinda legal herb or vitamin that I could take that would keep my self-esteem and nervousness around girls to a minimum?
Also, is it ok for a junior to date a freshman?
Thanks