"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting over this AW

El Don

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So theres this AW I work with. I think she kind of has a thing for me but I think she just might be an AW. She always makes jokes like "you going to give me a body massage later?" or "when are you going to give me some?" I think she use to like me because she would call my phone everynight before she went to bed and we would just talk. I think she lost interest because she stopped calling but she continues to flirt alot with me and makes those sexual comments in a playful way, but I figured that if she really was into me that way she would want to chill more or at least hint at it.

When I ask her about her plans for the weekend she doesnt project to me that she wants to hang out yet continues this flirty teasing.I really like her but I know she prob is just an AW and I want to get over her but I cant avoid her because I work with her. Do you all think she could still be interested in me, or is she another AW? and how would you get over her if she is just an AW? I am sorry but I just feel depressed because I think she just enjoys flirting with me but doesnt project the attitude that she likes me when I hint at hanging out sometime. I try to go out with friends and do other things to get my mind off and it works until I end up seeing her at work and it seems that I get feelings for her again. How do I get over her and is she an attention *****? Thanks for reading this post and helpin me out if you can, I apprectiate all the posts and tips you guys give on attracting women and any advice you can give will be greatly appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AWs by definition are interested in attention. So if you give her attention she will be interested in your attention.

Will you have sex with her ever - no.

Why won't you have sex with her? - Read the DJ bible to find out.
 

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flirt with other women in front of her..
 
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