Right, I posted on here a few days ago about whether I should contact this girl, she said she is busy this week, it didn't give me confidence but it did sound genuine
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201592
The advice I received was to contact her in a week and in the meantime go searching for other girls. The next day I chatted a couple of girls up one of which I got her number. We texted after meeting and she said she'd call me if she's free so I'm guessing that is a no or, as she says, I should wait. I'm also going to contact another girl that I had a date from pof last week, I don't think I really fancied this girl enough but I haven't had sex in about 6 months so maybe I shouldn't be so picky! I also went out last night on my own to a couple of bars but didn't last longer than 10 minutes in each as I felt out of place.
So my questions...
1. I'm getting super stressed and excited by these girls and the uncertainty it presents. I can't focus on much else and I'm even struggling sleeping and concentrating on my day job. My thoughts include the first girl who I'm still thinking of contacting (I did send a text, it felt right to keep in contact a little bit and she did respond). I feel a bit like a scared child. How do I deal with this?
2. I went out last night and all the guys in the clubs seemed younger (I'm 36), taller (I'm 5'7), cooler and more fun than me. The main problem I felt is that I was going in there cold and didn't have anyone to back me up. Again, what to do?
3. I've never done well in clubs and bars without a bunch of friends to back me up (which I don't have where I'm currently living), any advice on where to go for day game girls who are over 25 and single or links to help survive going out alone?
It's not all bad but this excitement and stress (I almost see them as one) is tough and feels self destructive.
Cheers
ATree
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201592
The advice I received was to contact her in a week and in the meantime go searching for other girls. The next day I chatted a couple of girls up one of which I got her number. We texted after meeting and she said she'd call me if she's free so I'm guessing that is a no or, as she says, I should wait. I'm also going to contact another girl that I had a date from pof last week, I don't think I really fancied this girl enough but I haven't had sex in about 6 months so maybe I shouldn't be so picky! I also went out last night on my own to a couple of bars but didn't last longer than 10 minutes in each as I felt out of place.
So my questions...
1. I'm getting super stressed and excited by these girls and the uncertainty it presents. I can't focus on much else and I'm even struggling sleeping and concentrating on my day job. My thoughts include the first girl who I'm still thinking of contacting (I did send a text, it felt right to keep in contact a little bit and she did respond). I feel a bit like a scared child. How do I deal with this?
2. I went out last night and all the guys in the clubs seemed younger (I'm 36), taller (I'm 5'7), cooler and more fun than me. The main problem I felt is that I was going in there cold and didn't have anyone to back me up. Again, what to do?
3. I've never done well in clubs and bars without a bunch of friends to back me up (which I don't have where I'm currently living), any advice on where to go for day game girls who are over 25 and single or links to help survive going out alone?
It's not all bad but this excitement and stress (I almost see them as one) is tough and feels self destructive.
Cheers
ATree
