"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting married to a 17-21 year old foreign chick, plus and minuses

backseatjuan

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I'm 36, my train has departed, boat and plane as well, pretty much. Let's say now, I go to United States, and start a business there. I need a wife, and I need children. What's wrong with taking a wife from a place like Russia? I don't mean mail order bride either, I mean befriending a girl on VK.com or OK.ru, going there to see her, date her, for 1 month, and then deciding to merry her or not. Hard core, child making type of deal. There are plenty of girls who are down for this, especially that now Trump is the president, as he is cooler than Putin at this moment in time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Assuming this is an honest post, let's dissect:

backseatjuan said:
I'm 36, my train has departed, boat and plane as well, pretty much. Let's say now, I go to United States, and start a business there. I need a wife, and I need children.
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Why do you need a wife to start a life in the United States? There are plenty of women here. Focus on yourself and your business. Get the woman after.


backseatjuan said:
What's wrong with taking a wife from a place like Russia? I don't mean mail order bride either, I mean befriending a girl on VK.com or OK.ru, going there to see her, date her, for 1 month, and then deciding to merry her or not. Hard core, child making type of deal. There are plenty of girls who are down for this, especially that now Trump is the president, as he is cooler than Putin at this moment in time.
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Nothing is wrong, just make sure you own this girl and you know a good lawyer for the pre-nup. You're volunteering to be her green card, basically.
 
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Only thing I can say is be warned: once you date feminine foreign women, American girls plummet in relative attractiveness. You start noticing things. A little extra fat. Feminism. Entitled attitude. Completely divorced from reality. If I bring my foreign girlfriend a bag of healthy snacks from the store, her eyes light up with joy. She actually values small gestures.

Hard to say if going back to the homegrown ladies is an desirable option anymore.
 
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Biggest minus is she uses you only for the purpose of her getting to a better country. You then get her filing a divorce after she is safely in her new country with a citizenship via marriage. Seen it happen before to a guy that worked for me 20 years ago. The Russian girl wanting to get to the USA thing has been going on at least that long.
 
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Why not? Just make sure you have some sort of protection against being used for a green card, and your finances and belongings. I would highly suggest a pre-nup. If it is understood between the two of you that you are in an arrangement, make sure you are protected anyway.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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