"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Getting hard one when talking in close to proximity to hot chicks?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SamePendo

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All the time.

Especially when I start getting things done, like getting their #, staring intimate kino, etc.

It helps if you dont masturbate, at all. Like not just avoiding ejaculation, but playing, masturbating, etc... you stop getting them that much, but nonetheless, you still get hot.
 

SamePendo

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All the time.

Especially when I start getting things done, like getting their #, staring intimate kino, etc.

It helps if you dont masturbate, at all. Like not just avoiding ejaculation, but playing, masturbating, etc... you stop getting them that much, but nonetheless, you still get hot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Visceral

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Pull her close so she can feel it through your pants :D

Don't be ashamed of your body and don't suppress your desires and instincts. That state of real arousal, without you having to touch or think about anything, is probably exactly where you need to be to make all this stuff work.

If you are concerned, then not masturbating will only make it worse.
 

Derek Flint

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Make no apologies for your desires as a Man.

Why are you trying to hide the fact that the chick you are talking to turns you on?

Imagine the opposite: That by you talking to a girl, you make her wet.
 

Paintballguy

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Its normal man.... Dont stress out over getting a boner near a hot chick. Its only time to worry when you dont get one around a hot girl.
 
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