getting girls in clubs (the hook)

[triplekaioken]

one thing ive noticed in my own personal game is -the hook-

girls in clubs obviously have tonnes of guys to choose from and obviously looking good helps...but it doesnt help the whole way. you have to 'hook' them.

a girl that i started talking to (i do know her through mutual friends) i used to message her first (we have never talked before) and she would never reply. but then one time i messaged her and she responded great, we talked, one thing lead to another and now she's obsessed with me, wants to **** me (im in a different country atm) and i completely have her wrapped around my finger.

so my game in clubs sucks atm so would it make sense to when in clubs = always approach the girl and just keep her talking, banter, push&pull, say funny **** to her, be more forceful, hit her emotional hotspots etc to 'hook her' and then as she starts to like you, you can lower your investment and energy in her?

initially thinking this i thought im going to look like a desperate idiot because i used to rarely approach girls in my life. im used to girls developing crushes on me but that aint guna happen in a club.

 

[alpha_ash]

There are sooo many posts about how to deal with girls in clubs. Its more about action than talking. Eye contact, dance, grind, talk for a minute, dance, grind, ****.

 

[BraddH]

One leads to another: i go to club, i know many girls. The girls come approach me, other girls can see that, they do it too. I have danced ever since i was little so if I need attraction I start taking the dance floor for myself. Otherwise I literally just stand there one spot watching. And never more than 10 minutes and someone has approached then I so my thing: indifference / happy / ****y funny or anything depending on what I'm feeling. If I get bored of standing and no one approaches I take control of dance floor and have fun.

I never spent more money on drinks than son cola, limonate or water.

It's really simple.

I have heard I make many girls jealous and I know deep down it just makes them wet. But the best thing is I never even am aware or use any energy to make anyone jealous. On the contrary I get more energy while I'm having fun. This is the right frame in not just club, but about anything in life.