"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Getting Day 2's or Something Beyond the First Night

Lil Magic

Don Juan
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Well, me and my friends find it oh so easy to get a number, but to get a day two seems nearly IM-FRICKING-POSSIBLE. These girls flirt, give you their number and stuff, but when u hit them up later, either they dont remember you from that night (too much liquour), have a bf already or simply dont respond. This is frustrating the hell out of me!!! Sure I'm getting some in college, but not nearly as much as I was expecting. I'm wondering if the girls here are just straight up fake (or racist lol)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ease

Master Don Juan
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Girls flirt for fun, attention and ego boost.

Dont be fooled so easily.
 
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