"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting angry with women when ferling disrespected

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I've noticed I've had this issue arise with 2 or 3 girls. There are a few where it never happened. The scenario is typically a group of friends and the girl will come along with. If I feel she is not giving me enough attention, giving others too much attention,etc. I get irritated, get very upset with then girl, etc. And im sure it changes the whole demeanor of the group. There have been instances where the behavior on the girls end was too flirtatious and I've flipped a switch and have done some brazen things like get into an argument and just leave her in a parking lot. Nearly every time, the girl will come back or wonder why I'm upset. I used to think that this was like an initiation phase of a relationship. But that's not a healthy mentality. My question is, am I being too insecure? What's the best way to handle this? Because it has recently occurred, but I controlled my tongue and I'm beginning to think its a negative trait I need to work on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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