Getting a woman to chase after you

[skinnyguy]

I'm starting to think that the only way of knowing a woman is interested is if she's literally chasing after you.

10 years ago I would "pursue" women and the ones who welcomed my advances I'd end up dating.

Now it seems that the only way a woman is interested is if you're super Alpha in which case she'll be blowing up your phone all the time. Pursuing women doesn't work at all.

Hitting up a girl on FB or Tinder seems to rarely if ever work, because you're in a position of weakness. Online game has essentially ended for men.

So, I'm starting to think that I should only be paying attention to women who are trying to pull my pants off because the ones who are 1/2 interested I'll never get into bed with. And you can't get those 1/2 interested girls to be fully interested because they know within 5 seconds if they want to eff you or not.

 

[Mike32ct]

I agree with most of the above.

 

[Maximus Rex]

You Do Have the Gay Option

What happened with homegirl you met on the plane that you're having a budding "relatinship," with due to your "solid texting game," and the chick from Dallas?

 

[skinnyguy]

What happened with homegirl you met on the plane that you're having a budding "relatinship," with due to your "solid texting game," and the chick from Dallas?

You're turning into another PlayHer Man with your negative tone.

The girl I met with on the plane, she's really interested in me. I lost contact with the Dallas girl.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

I agree with your points. Messaging HB's online has never worked for me. Spam blasting POF and OKCupid to bone 5's and low 6's doesn't count. Every woman that I've hooked up with online has messaged me first.