"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get numbers when drunk? When to call or Text?

sasffl

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So ive been getting a lot of girls numbers when ive been kinda drunk and im sure they havent been exactly stone sober. Other than asking them what they are doing that night? What kind of stuff should i text them to let them know im interested but not overly interested. And how long should i wait to text them?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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horaholic

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Either send them all a mass text to go to some party some night, or call them one on one, and set up a date, and try to hang out with them alone. If you get a lot of numbers, hopefully at least one of them wont flake.
 

COD

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or U might wanna try to text flirt.............see texting 101 article I wrote a few days ago
 
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