Get her to visit me

[MrWolf]

Hey guys.

I have totally fascinated two women, and it seems from what they say and do they love me. One calls me several times a day, and another have written me like 20 poems or something. And this is just a little piece. It's absurd, yet, I am having problem with getting them to visit me.

I should mention I met both of these girls on the internet and we talk regulary on the phone. They are both extremely attractive and I have met one of them and had sex with her (the one that calls all the time).

So, my question is, how can I, without preassuring them, get them to come over and visit me?

~W~

 

[Legend]

you go girl

 

[Evangenlion]

aaaaah shut up, your just bragging.

go figure it out yourself man, what do u want? to be breast fed

 

[Vibe]

Originally posted by MrWolf
how can I, without preassuring them, get them to come over and visit me?

Why is this so difficult? If they are as into you as you say they are, you could probably say anything.

This worked for me once. I hadn't talked to this girl for a long time (we used to f*ck - but it had been a while). So one Friday I sent her a text message at around noon that said "So what time are you coming tonight?" She responded with "I dunno, when do you want me to come?" And I said "Be here at 9:00. Dress sexy."

And at 9:00, there she was...sexy as all get out.

Say anything. They want you - they obviously want to be near you. The HARD part is getting them to leave when you get tired of them!

~Vibe~

 

[MrWolf]

First of all, it's no bragging. I seriously need help with this. I think my problem in one way is that most women don't get massive sexual attraction towards me, they fall madly in love instead. I have no problem with turning a woman on, but the relationship vibes are enormous. Which is nice, but it is an entirely different world to walk in. Though... I am looking for a girlfriend and not loads of casual sex, so it's good for me.

But still, I am having problems with getting them both, mostly one of them, to come over. I don't know if she's scared or whatever. Have anyone else had this problem that can give a take on this? Im not specificly looking for things to say, more in terms of - maybe she lacks security, she might be scared, haven't I turned her on enough with alpha-male behaviour. Still kinda new to these insights so I have no reference points really. So yeah, can you breat feed me - :O

~W~

 

[libre]

And why is it so important for you that you get those girls to come to your place?

If you do, you will have to assure yourself that your pad is spick and span. I don't know about you, but that is a real problem for myself.

By the way, Jeffrey Dammer one of those notorious serial killers in the US did get his victims to visit him at his place.

 

[libre]

Mr. Wolf

Oh yes, and by the way, why did you choose the moniker «MrWolf» to post on this site out of all odds?

Perhaps these two girls that are frequenting you are attracted to some danger that you are projecting, however, they could be very right to stay away from your place.

 

[arutha]

Well its pretty obvious, take them out to public places first so they are comfortable with you in person... Theres no way I'd go alone straight to a persons house that I'd just met on the internet and talked to on the phone.

 

[Tomb]

Originally posted by MrWolf
So, my question is, how can I, without preassuring them, get them to come over and visit me?

~W~

Ask!

 

[MrWolf]

Missunderstanding

Ah, there seem to have been a misunderstanding, no I'm not looking for getting them home to my place. Just to come to the same city, take a walk on a "date".

Guys, loads of you are really rude. Let's get this straight: I'm no idiot, I'm no player and I'm looking for constructive critisism and ideas. If you can't share something useful then shut up.

~W~

 

[arutha]

Chat em up, get them in a good mood, then ask. If they don't want to, interest level clearly isn't very high and you should move on. Lots of people use the internet as the location so to speak, they want to chat to people online to kill time but never actually meet them in person.

Remember: Don't simply ask, tell them you are doing something and give them the opportunity of accompanying you if they want.

 

[BackToTheMack]

Originally posted by MrWolf
Hey guys.

I have totally fascinated two women, and it seems from what they say and do they love me. One calls me several times a day, and another have written me like 20 poems or something. And this is just a little piece. It's absurd, yet, I am having problem with getting them to visit me.

I should mention I met both of these girls on the internet and we talk regulary on the phone. They are both extremely attractive and I have met one of them and had sex with her (the one that calls all the time).

So, my question is, how can I, without preassuring them, get them to come over and visit me?

~W~

Let me get this straight they write you poems call you 20 times a day BUT THEY DONT WANT TO SEE YOU tool