Get Committed vs. Play the Field

[Pecker]

Last night I was kind of depressed because a phone call with my Saturday night random hookup did not go well. She seemed ashamed of having made out with me after knowing me for 20 minutes (we were both drunk). But anyway, she was hot and then she shied away so I was all down last night.

Then to make myself feel better I call this girl and tell her to come meet me at this on campus cafe. We'll call her Girl A.

Girl A had ASKED for my phone number under the guise that she needed a "Study budy" or someone to check assignments with. Yeah right. So we just get coffee on campus at around ten, and I'm getting big vibes, and sending big vibes back. After an hour or so I conclude by saying "I want to kiss you." We kiss. She says "I'm floating now. Stuff like this never happens to me."

Today we got even closer. I hung around her room for awhile and we made out, snuggled, talked, etc. I'm not forcing the issue of sex on her, I've learned from my mistakes. I even told her something along the lines of "I have no agenda, go at the pace you're comfortable with." She appreciates this.

Today Girl A was saying things like "You are the perfect guy" and "You turn me on." We do have a lot in common, actually it's quite scary. She was really shy the first few minutes of seeing her today, and I think I did an excellent job of bringing her out of it. She got sexual FAST and started joking about sex and how she "is never like this" etc.

Then there's Girl B, who I was trippin' over last year. I have a chance to hang out with her this weekend. Girl A will be back at home with her family. I won't lie, Girl B really, really, really, REALLY turns me on. Everything about her I just love. We also have a lot in common. Yesterday I was talking to her, looking into her eyes trying to penetrate into her mind.

She flinched, so fast that you could miss it, but it was the point of contact, that first crack in the dam. It was the moment she understood my intention. Even though she has a boyfriend I am pretty sure that does not mean much. They live far apart and I'm starting to believe she has liked me all this time as well. I said we should party on Saturday and she seemed agreeable.

Then I hung out with Girl A and got all mooshy gooshy and felt guilty about the whole thing. I'm afraid A and B will find out about each other. They have the same majors and know people in common classes.

I REALLY want Girl A.

I REALLY want Girl B.

I REALLY don't know what to do.

I think I know the answer to my own question. I'll get serious with Girl A, because I haven't had a chance to be serious with a girl and I want to learn more about myself. But darnit. Girl B just rocks my world.

 

[Slickster]

Quit being a pvssy and do them both.

 

[Pecker]

Slickster, you are about as smart as my foot.

 

[Austin Allegro]

Girl A really likes you, you've 'made out' with her and she seems fine. Girl B has given little sign she likes you and she has a boyfriend.

You can either. 1. Play it safe and stick with Girl A, and forget about girl B. This may even raise Girl B's interest

or 2. Dump girl A and go for girl B and risk getting blown out

or 3. Go for gold and try and carry on with both of them, which probably won't last long but you'll go out in a blaze of glory.

Your call. I'd go for option 1 myself.

 

[spaposter]

I would go for option 1 as well. Make no mistake here man.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Allright, you may not agree with my opinion and that is fine.

I will not consider being exclusive with a girl without knowing her at least 3 months. I always try and maintain at least 3 prospects, and date each of them, and as soon as one disqualifies herself, she is quickly replaced. This keeps your challenge up because you are always busy with one of the girls and the other 2 are left wondering about you.

There is no reason for you to 'choose' either of them, because you are not in a position where they are your only options. And to choose one of them won't serve you because if you pick girl A, and she starts flaking, then you are back at step 1... so rather, just date them both and they will take themselves off the list as time goes on.

If one of them brings up a relationship, you just say, I like you but I'm not looking for a relationship.

My 2¢.

 

[Knicknack]

'So pimp its scary' speaks the truth.