"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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George Clooney Hollywood's PUA

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No doubt about it this guy is an absolute legend as we say in Oz. One report even critises him as being insentive and that he wouldn't make a good father. Negging is one of the things which has clearly kept this guy on his game. A senior Don Juan, love his material.
 

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Dear FL,
Yeah.....George is the Man....both him and Clint Eastwood....Come to think of it selling shoes to Ladies would be a tough Number.
 
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