"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gender role reversal. pretend youre a sexy girl coming on a guy

thechosenone2190

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i feel like a lot of the advice on this board puts you in the same mindset as a sexy girl would be in if she wanted to seduce a guy into bed with her. the girl already knows she's hot and will land any guy she wants if she persists long enough. she's sexy and she knows once the guy gets horney by kino, he's all hers. if the guy doesn't reciprocate interest to a seductive girl, which is almost unthinkable, he's either gay, a wuss, or complete idiot and it's his loss. she can seduce any other normal functioning guy instead easily

except pretend you're the hot horney girl and the girl you're approaching is the guy. if you lift weights and get fit, you become a hotter girl but you're really a guy

am i right in this analogy? doesn't this mindset pretty much reflect a lot of the widely accepted dj values? eg. gunwitch method? shouldn't every aspiring dj just start adopting the mindset that they're a hot sexy horney girl seducing guys but just the opposite way around?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tiguere

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Nah ill just go to gay bars and seduce gay men to get a day 2.
 

teacha

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lol dude why dont you just be a MAN.
 
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