"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rej

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alright fellas, i need some ideas...
i'm 22 and do local deliveries with a transport company. i delivered a few times to this greenhouse company. theres a bunch of ppl working trying to get things set up for the spring opening. there was this one girl there and man was she hot, but not just hot..just seemed to fit my perfect discription of the perfect girl..well as much as i can tell from looking at her anyway :p ... first time i was there i noticed her but i couldn't really grab her attention..but today she kept kinda coming around where i was and flashed me a few quick smiles..might have been nothing but u never know..anyway..how do i spark up a convo with this girl..time is limited because of my job and she always looks kinda busy there too.. any ideas? just need a quick convo starter and i'll slip the "well unfortunatly i gotta get back to work, but whats ur num so i can call u someitme" line.... but can't just fire that one out without some sparker first....any help?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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