Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ganji or not?

hayabusa

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Hi everybody from italy:)In italy I could say that can be found the sexiest chicks on earth...only 7s 10s.Guys too,in fact here we dress very well trendy hair all fashioned,and that attracts girls alot.Yeah here is all about fashion
I ve known this girl for 1 year now,she's 18 super hot goes to the gym dresses well and likes guys,she knows that I like her(she's so buxom,I so wanted to use this word,thick legs girl just like you americans like them).Since the first times though she had made it clear to me that she likes tall blonde green eyed,I didn't care and I still made advances to her,till I got her number and started to send sms like crazy and call her all the time and I guess that freaked her out,cuz she wouldn't answer and sometime avoid me.
The thing is that I ve confused this girl I think with my behaviour because sometimes I act like a complete wusss,needy,sometimes I m all confident,specially when I m looking good,tease her act all dominant.And she tests me all the time..with her provoking behaviour.This kinds of gives me hope cuz she flirts with me.Though she tells me she likes this pretty dude or that super biceps guy.Oh and here's a tip I told her why dont you bang that guy if you like him so much...she was like umm I would love to but he's been hitting on my 2 girlfriends and they have turned him down,so would make me look bad.THOUGH SHE LIKES HIM ALOT SHE WONT GO FOR HIM CUZ HER FRIENDS HAVE TURNED HIS ASS DOWN.Then she turned on me she said wthf you work your ass off in the gym and you have so small arms!!!.And this guy is like super muscled guy,18 years old 47 bicep,which she confessed that what she liked about him-since then I ve started training biceps:cool:
Well I decided after reading here to start playing ganji games,so no more sms calling or other stuff.When I see her at the gym I m on my own and I avoid her,but when she comes to me I make sure I smile(though now I smile a little less since she has told me dude you're always smiling that's because I like her very much and I m a positive person)and I tease her a little then go elsewhere.Since then I ve seen she plays with her hair bites her lip when I look at her,which happens very rarely.I guess she is intrigued,however this hasn't moved her to call me yet.The thing is that I ve read that girls read on this behaviour they know that I m playing with her her same game,so finally my question is should I ganji her or...what???:crazy:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NickBe

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I do not know were to start, with your inability to write in paragraphs, your use of the word 'ganji' which i am sure most people have no idea what it means or with your complete lack of skill and style in dealing with this woman.

You are a mess and you have already screwed it up with this woman.

Find another girl, subito.
 

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speakeasy said:
Yeah, what the heck does "ganji" mean?
Do a search, there's a thread in tips.


By all means, cut the AW off. Then, worry about other things beside this one chick you've known for a year and haven't fuxed. You're her girlfriend, she's your oneit¡s. Tip: let her see you with other women.
 

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NickBe said:
I do not know were to start, with your inability to write in paragraphs, your use of the word 'ganji' which i am sure most people have no idea what it means or with your complete lack of skill and style in dealing with this woman.

You are a mess and you have already screwed it up with this woman.

Find another girl, subito.

Well if he's from Italy I think his English is great! Give the guy a break!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jtrain 289

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I make sure I smile(though now I smile a little less since she has told me dude you're always smiling
Why would you change your attitude because a girl doesnt like it. **** that girl she's just a stupid ***** go for someone else she's used to your company already. Its to late unless you stop letting her tell you what to do like how to smile and just stop talking to her go for other girls man vulpine is right maybe other girls will like your smile.
 

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Nickbe, if you are treating women the way that you are treating other guys here, then it's no wonder you are here.
Haya, your english is very understandable and we will all wait for Nickbe's Italian post and await your comments.
Until then, Ganji sounds the way to go with her. You should also try to openly flirt with other girls (even if you are not trying to pick them up) and let her see she is not the only women you are interested in.
 

NickBe

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Well Italian is actually my second language and I never criticized his English and I am not here to learn how to get laid.
 
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