"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gaming the older ladies?

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arekaye

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Hello all... pretty basic background here. I haven't really had much experience with the ladies but would like to embrace the wonderful journey and not let the negative chemicals take control of my brain.

I'm a senior in high school but I really don't game any girls in my own school. Mainly for the fact if I don't get anywhere with them or come off the wrong way, word can spread around and affect OTHER attempts. I'm really good at approaching at football games and the normal places chicks in my age bracket hang out at because I can get familiarity from difference in conversations and whatnot. I never really do much kino but am going to start going hard on it because it will probably make a HUGE difference in interactions.

But to my main question, I'd really like to meet more college types of girls. I live around 3 difference major universities and it's almost like a human gold-mine. I go downtown for a night and get frozen in my tracks from all of the 'practicees'. The thing is, I don't approach many of these girls because I'd like to get a little bit more insight on approaching older girls while being a bit younger than them. Is there a way I can use my age as an advantage and preferrably use guys in sets to be an advantage for myself? Should I just approach countless times and learn how to deal with the tests that are thrown at me?

Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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S-lemond

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i say go for it...in this situation thats wat i would do
 

Vincent

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College chicks are a lot like highschool chicks.

Just act mature and they'll never know.
 
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