"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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howdy fellas.

so a lot's been going on in my life lately, and I decided I needed to take a break from women while I figure things out.

so I go to this new year's eve party, not expecting anything... in fact I said I would wingman for my buddy since there was this girl he liked. I was also the DD so I was prepared to just kinda take it easy and sit back at the party.

well by the end of the night I had two girl's numbers, one of whom was trying to get me to kiss her for the longest time, and then another girl flashed me and wanted me to grab her chest.

so then today I'm rollin with my buddy who I went to the party with, and told him how I got the numbers. we were going to have a few people over tonight, so he said I should call them and have the irls come over. one lives out of town, but i called the other one without any thought or hesitation. she already had plans for the night, but then I ended up inviting her to go skiing with us tomorrow and she's realy excted about going.

when I got off the phone I just looked at my buddy and realized I had just hit on this girl and convinced her to go out with us. wthout any prior thought!



so the new year is looking alright for me... I'm totally prepared to let the women come to me :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah that's great. it always is easier when they come to us :p - it feels good when a girl does the moves. i've had girls in a library lick my neck, put my house key down their top, talk about their tits... give me their number without me doing anything. problem was, i never fuked any of them as i was still young and not totally into girls at that stage :S *slaps himself*
 
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you gamed her sub-conciously, and you didnt have to worry about being nervous. I say do what works for you bro
 
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yeah I'm not expecting things to work out so great all the time. but I'm really more focused on the rest of my life seperate from women right now. I'd probably be better off if women left me alone for a while, but well... that'd just be too hard for them :rock:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i tried that for 4 years. believe it or not. i stopped chasing women. i did get some girls starting with me but i felt happy enough being single. but then that urge comes back... very hard to resist wanting a woman.
 
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