"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gaming foreign girls in your second language?

Deicide

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Hello, I'm going to be going to Spain in a few weeks and I'll be staying there for a month. I was wanting to know how one goes about gaming women in your second language? Spanish being mine. I don;t typically speak it much but I understand, read, and write it very well so the next step will be gaining fluency. This trip has all the makings of great personal development.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As long as you are not horrendously slow and looking up a dictionary all the time, and they have a little bit of patience, should be loads of fun!
 

Warrior74

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Read some Roosh V.

He's in South America but what you can learn is to see how different women act towards foreigners. The best thing is to figure out what works for them and what they expect/look for in a foreigner. Some women like it if you say you are staying for a long time, others like it if you are a short timer. Depends on the culture. Comb through his site.

http://www.rooshv.com/
 
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