"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gaming different girls in same social circle.

drift king

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i no. closed a while ago this russian chick but she kept cancelling on me without offering another time i had it with her (it was my fault for letting it happen for so long, so i shouldnt be surprised about the result)

anyway, in her crew of russian gf's she has some smoking hot girls much hotter than her.. today i was walking along side 2 (who i think are part of her circle) so turned and started talking to them, 1 was being a b1tch the other was surprised i spoke their a little bit of their language and seemed interested.

however despite the fact of this, the other 1 i might have met originally with the 1 i mentioned in the 1st paragraph, and u can tell how the convo is going without needing to understand what is being said. i think that 1 told the other 1 'thats that guy so and so was talking about he tries it with all the russian girls..' i got both names and impolite 1 had same name as 1 i met previously.

cos the 1 i liked seemed less talky, this went over a period of say 1 min as i walked by, i thought i better vacate the situation even tho they were going same way as me. was this a smart move?

maybe i should have stayed longer walking with them to increase more interest, but the rude 1 was putting me off cos she was discourteous.

i felt i could come across as this creepy guy trying to pick up girls off the street just outside campus but walking to the local food/market district.

i have a name, so really thats all i need, hopefully when i see her again i can isolate her and no. close.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kevin Feng

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Seems like you were all over the place and going back and forth between your seduction steps. You need to start from the ground up. In other words, if you look at mystery method, they have the different steps, like A1, A2, etc etc.

I go by the ABC's model in the ABC's of attraction. First you need to approach a girl, which you did, and then you need to pump up her buying temperature with jokes, ****y funny, etc etc, and then you need to move into comfort.

You didn't follow any linear pattern, you just want talking aimlessly. Read a pick up book and follow it step by step, it'll seem chunky off the get go, but you'll get used to it.

-Kevin
 

drift king

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i dont think you read my post properly dude..

i didnt have time to increase buying temperature.. i just went into ****y funny material after i asked if they were russian.

1 was being a b1tch so there is nothing i can do, i vacated cos i felt if i had stayed longer the b1tchy 1 would make things even harder for myself.. i made an intro got a name, so next time i see her i can open again without needing to be like 'oh i talked to u that time we were walking down the street but i dont know your name.' at least with a name i can start off with something.

the question is.. should i have stayed and carried on given the fact the b1tchy 1 was being b1tchy?

maybe i intruded in their convo.. i dont know. either way i didnt want her.. i wanted the hot 1.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Prodigy746

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Why didnt you ask the other girl ...Is your friend always this rude to friendly people?

I would try to make her jelous or atleast call her out on her *****y behavior. In all honesty if a girl is a ***** to me i will be a bigger ***** to her. I have asked girls before.... "is it that time of the month because you are being a *****". That usually either puts them on the defensive side or they even become worse. If the become worse i bounce. ..
 
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