"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gaming a girl with a boyfriend

Shivastorm_88

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She's not the only girl that I'm gaming right now, don't worry about it... Although I don't want to give this up yet for whatever reasons that isn't important to this post.

What is the best way to go around it? Game slow (while showing interest through kino and escalation)? Or just go right away for the kill?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ENIGMA16

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Handle it business as usual. To you, she's single.

Unless you are friends with her bf, then don't go there.
 
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