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Gal with BF wants us to hang out sunday

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I dunno if shes intrested or not, but she wants us to hang out sunday and has been texting me alot despite the
fact her bf got really angry with her the other day coz she was texting me

shes ruled out the cinema coz her bf woulnt be happy about it but i think were gonna look round town and go back to hers to play on her playstation

i do wanna go but should i tell her that im not doing anything with her on sunday unless her bf says its ok

or should i just go along with it, an continue to not really care what her bf thinks?

cheers
 

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find out what she is planing to do with that b/f of hers. if she is about to dump him, then you might want to wait till she does it (so your not in the middle of the drama) if she has no plans to dump him, then just invite her to your place for some nice, rough, mindblowing sex.
 

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Jizz/Pooman/Petercrouch, do you ever get the impression that you're just not learning anything at all here?

Have you read the DJ Bible?

You seem to be looking for someone to live your life for you and make all of your decisions. Take responsibility for yourself.

And...WTF? Her b/f won't let you take her to the cinema but he's happy letting you go back to hers?! He sounds like a proper chump.
 

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the bf won't let you go to the cinema with her but let you go to her place where you can bang her?! That makes no sense.
 

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Originally posted by Jizz
i do wanna go but should i tell her that im not doing anything with her on sunday unless her bf says its ok
Yes, ask her BF for a permission to **** his girl. Also invite him so he can watch :crackup:
 

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hmm...

what happened to bro's before hoes man. Morally I think its very wrong to go and mess around with a girl who has a bf, imagine if you are the reason they break up..u prob sayin great so I then you could go get her afterwards...untill some other guy comes and does it you again.

My conscience wouldnt let me do it.
 

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Originally posted by Jizz
I dunno if shes intrested or not, but she wants us to hang out sunday and has been texting me alot despite the
fact her bf got really angry with her the other day coz she was texting me

shes ruled out the cinema coz her bf woulnt be happy about it but i think were gonna look round town and go back to hers to play on her playstation

i do wanna go but should i tell her that im not doing anything with her on sunday unless her bf says its ok

or should i just go along with it, an continue to not really care what her bf thinks?

cheers
:crackup:

Ok seriously is this for real?


Well anyways,

I say if the chick is willing to do something alone with me like going to the movies, club, or my/her place then its all fair game.

Game On baby.

YOUR GF should not be doing any of those things ALONE with another person with a pennies.

And look at this.

She Text you a lot,

Trying to make plans to do stuff alone or what couples do,

Yet says your just a friend. I believe there's a song about that.

Remember actions speak louder then words.

She says she doesn't want to go to the movies but will cruise with you then go back to her house to play playstation so her bf won't get upset?

Yeah ok.

If this is true then you know good damn well she ain't interested to playing playstation.

However I’m a little sketch with this post because,

i think were gonna look round town and go back to hers to play on her playstation
I never met a hot girl that plays playstation.

The only ones I know are my younger brothers cute girls that are 15 and she really doesn't play it.

And the other girls are the fugly ones that also like D & D and anime.

So which one is it?
 

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Re: Re: Gal with BF wants us to hang out sunday

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
:crackup:

Ok seriously is this for real?


Well anyways,

I say if the chick is willing to do something alone with me like going to the movies, club, or my/her place then its all fair game.

Game On baby.

YOUR GF should not be doing any of those things ALONE with another person with a pennies.

And look at this.

She Text you a lot,

Trying to make plans to do stuff alone or what couples do,

Yet says your just a friend. I believe there's a song about that.

Remember actions speak louder then words.

She says she doesn't want to go to the movies but will cruise with you then go back to her house to play playstation so her bf won't get upset?

Yeah ok.

If this is true then you know good damn well she ain't interested to playing playstation.

However I’m a little sketch with this post because,



I never met a hot girl that plays playstation.

The only ones I know are my younger brothers cute girls that are 15 and she really doesn't play it.

And the other girls are the fugly ones that also like D & D and anime.

So which one is it?
Lol great post

anyway she is hot, and like you said she sounds intrested, maybe shes just being extra friendly im not too sure, but like you i think its odd that shes willing to go back to hers but not the cinema coz her bf wont be happy

im not too sure whats going on with this chick tbh, i dunno if she thinks were just friends or if she is actually intrested

its a bit odd, but iam definatly gonna go meet her on sunday and see what happens
 

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Why do you AFC's read so much into this sh#t ? Who cares what her intentions are. Hang out with her Sunday, put moves on her, and see how she reacts. Why are you even posting this situation ?

We don't live your life and we don't know any details besides what u give us. You're just another worthless poster on these boards.

Feel free to give us a field report AFTER you hang out w/ her, and maybe we can help u then. Now that would be worthwhile.
 

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On a side note, personally I don't do this kind of thing nor do I recommend it. Its jacked up steeling another mans women but things happen.

So if this is what you want then,

Just be cool man and hit that. Like I said before, if her BF lets her do this then he's stupid, a major AFC and needs to be taught a lesson.

Maybe well find him on the site soon with a post saying: "I let my GF go to the movies with a friend and I think she cheated on me. Please Help!" :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls have two kinds of friends: boyfriends and girlfriends. If she already has a boyfriend and you are not fvcking her what does that make you?? Thats right, you are the girlfriend.

If she really wanted you she would have went behind her boyfriend back in order to see you. The fact that she did it in front of him, tells me that she is an AW who plays games and just loves the drama she causes.

Sounds also like she is dating some AFC who gets very emotional when she mentiones other guys. Do you really want to be jumped by her boyfriend as you walk down the street because his stupid AW girlfriend went over to your house?

Ignore her text messages and mixed signals, go find yourself some single girls.

DjDamage
 

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well were not hanging out tomorrow anymore, she said the reason was she didnt have enough money for the bus, so can we do it another time she asked, i said sure but i have to go now so bye and left it at that

last night i know her and her bf were agruing quite a bit, she even text me to tell me that her relationship can suck at times, i completely ignored that subject and just mentioned something else

im not sure what they were arguing about or anything but i dont think the real reason is her not having enough money for the bus tbh, personally i think the bf has told her not too hang out with me or something i dunno

if she says anything to me about it im just gonna say "look i know the real reason is your bf doesnt want us hanging out so ike you said, well do it some other time, when your single"

one good thing about it i suppose is that she doesnt see us as just friends because if we were just friends i dont think 1) her bf would mind her hanging out with friends and 2) i dont think she would let her bf stop her from seeing her friends

im gonna cut the contact etc untill shes single

cheers for the advice guys

1 more question

any ideas what i could do tomorrow?
 
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