So this girl I was hooking up with for about 9 months .. we break it off. Today is 1 day and 3 weeks after the last time I've said anything to her. It's the longest I've gone without acknowledging her existence since we started hooking up. I'm getting over her more and more each day, even on day 2 I realized I could never be hurt BADLY by anyone, because of how close me and this girl were, but yet I didn't feel that badly on day 2.
My question is something along the lines of how I'm doing. She contacted me twice so far, once to ask for my address to send me something, and another time to say happy birthday. She contacts me, I say nothing back. Am I doing it right? I'm supposed to stay NC until she does what? Meanwhile I know the main point is to get over her, which I'm doing, but what would she hypothetically have to say for it to be considered fair game to return and not her "winning?"
My question is something along the lines of how I'm doing. She contacted me twice so far, once to ask for my address to send me something, and another time to say happy birthday. She contacts me, I say nothing back. Am I doing it right? I'm supposed to stay NC until she does what? Meanwhile I know the main point is to get over her, which I'm doing, but what would she hypothetically have to say for it to be considered fair game to return and not her "winning?"