FUR: 3 second rule.

[skip2mylou781]

polar bear? - wtf r u just THINKING abouit it for/?? go ahead and use it and see how badly u get rejected, it'll b a good learning experience

polar bear? i laughed harder at that than i did all week

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I'm trying to 'detach' myself and not take using it too personal, but let's just say, if I were watching a TV show, and some guy had a hidden camera, and were approaching girls, and doing just this for kicks, like a gag, then it would likely be a really funny comedy skit of seeing how people just react.

Need to be in this 'frame of mind', like, I'm the one that's watching for entertainment of how random HB's in public would respond to some 'skit', like that.

Here comes a guy virtually accousting them, and holding them where they think it's a serious question of some sort, like directions or time or something (the only logical reason for stopping someone is to ask for time or directions who is walking by with shields on - so logically, that's what they are going to expect until you THROW THEM OFF with the Polar Bear question - and then they'll be like duh).

WATCH THE REACTIONS ON THEIR FACES, THEN IF IT GOES BAD OR WIERD JUST SAY 'JUST KIDDING'.

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[qweretyuiopas]

please dont use the stupid ass polar bear line unless u gong to only be rejected. Who knows if you still afraid use it, it wont work and eventually you wont be as afraid. Just say "hi my name is luke and I saw you from over there *whereever you were at* and had to say hi" and go from there, i mean its not some golden line but its certainly better than the polar bear one.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

please dont use the stupid ass polar bear line unless u gong to only be rejected. Who knows if you still afraid use it, it wont work and eventually you wont be as afraid. Just say "hi my name is luke and I saw you from over there *whereever you were at* and had to say hi" and go from there, i mean its not some golden line but its certainly better than the polar bear one.

Direct opener: Just introduce yourself.

<In your mind, your approach is really giving a girl a chance to take advantage of an opportunity that's going in her life, even if you cant see it yourself, you must assume the right girl certainly will, even if you dont know it>

Hi, (smile), <pause>

my name is XYZ, and extend hand,

Group:

Hi ladies (smile), My name is XYZ.

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See I dont know if it would work on a couple/group of women that are together on a street corner, even a direct opener seems wierd.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Gym C0ckblocker Challenges

After reading the other post about gym, I almost cracked myself laughing uncontrollable to myself on the gym on what stunts I was about to do, but didn't have the nerve to do them.

There were a few scattered HB's around. I still dont have the nerve to walk up to a girl on an treadmill or cycle and stand next to her to talk, it's like I feel I have to 'naturalise' myself and go on the machine beside her to look normal. However - this mind-set creates unnecessary c0ckblockers - after all, a woman just has to sit next to a machine that is not in service that's not adjacent with other machine, and bingo - you have a c0ckblocker.

So the challenge next time, with a lone woman on a threadmill, is just go up to her and use a direct approach, and say, hey, my name is xyz, it's the first time I saw you here, are you new to this gym? Alright, great, I'm going to go back and do some exercises, great to meet you!

This resolves the only solution to overcoming artificial c0ckblocks.

So, I just have to practise approaching girls in the gym, try direct approaches I guess WITHOUT going to an adjacent machine first - or that are not dependent on that.

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Other HB beside a c0ckblocker guy - here's where I laughed myself almost hysterically by myself. I was thinking of going next to this guy, befriending him, saying, hey dude, are you new to the gym, and then gain some rapport with him --- and try to engage any convo he and the other HB were having together, and blirt out - so, are you guys from the same school or something - and see what they say.

All I would be able to accomplish, esp. without a wing, would be just to introduce myself to the girl, and if by chance they are not really that close and she comes alone to the gym, well, I already got a foot in the door. Of course, no contact-close would be attempted with this AMOG beside the girl, even Mystery isn't that crazy.

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At the end of the day - I got the name down of the sexy HB gym clerk, a "Mary", which means, I can think of a play term for her, "Sweet Mary", "Hail Mary full of grace", or some other pun like that for kicks - maybe I'll think of something by next time.

It was ackward, I just went up to her and asked her --- duh, what's your name.

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Another HB girl was standing by herself on the counter, didnt' have the nerve to approach, but should have flexed my muscles from a distance and smiled or laughed with her. A strategy I may employ next time that will likely get her laughing. Of course, if she were to laugh, I'd approach her and try to rap her and #-close her.

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There were other guys in the gym, I was laughing in my mind the whole time at some of them, like one with a Superman t-shirt on, I said 'geek'. Like the humour book says, you should always think 'funny' to become a humours guy.

To salvage what I could - this time I talked to guys, the Superman guy, and the another guy there to find out there was a factory next to the gym where he worked. Didn't have the nerve to ask any guy how many girls he shaged at the gym that I talked to, or see if they were into that stuff - ie, know any good girls in this gym --- feel ackward bringing that convo up, oh well.

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[Luke Skywalker]

Applying some game concepts: SHORT-GAME exercises - wait for eliciting values, patterning and all the hard stuff later.

IOI's, a girl looks at you, tell her "Hey, are you checking me out?"
"No, I was just looking at you." "No, I saw you, you were checking me out"

Over-exaggerate anything that could be construed as interest.

Mental exercise -- when I go out next time, assume every single woman is attracted to me, and think of how they are showing that attraction subconciously or unconciously - tell them that you have been reading up on the unconcious mind and can tell they are attracted to me and dont know it, and explain how using Ross Jeffries's NLP stuff.

CHICK-CRACK routines --- excellent concept - group of girls on a table, have a chick-crack routine after an opener - one-on-one even, learn CHICK-CRACK ideas or concepts to grab their attention on something -- excellent.

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People have said to apply DIRECT GAME with LONE WOLFS on other threads.