"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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funny thing i did to a hb

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So I had a rough week of work and decided to go out day sarging to keep my spirits up....sun was out and so where the legs.
so I went and bought myself a cool cheap work out shirt...and made chit chat to people.

long story short I met one of those girls who work at those expensive hand bag stores....u know? All dolled up...id bring her home every night lmao

I told her that "every one of these stores I step into it is like walking into a McDonald's. You're always going to know what you're going to get."

her jaw dropped for a second and she said, "wow. That's interesting."

then I replied with..."yea because its like this...do you want to talk to hot girl #1,hot girl #2,#3,etc.. Like ordering off the menu. Haha"

lol....

she gave that dismissing laugh that girls do...but I could tell in her eye that she's curious as to my personality. Lol

side note...i was dressed dinner nice and had a tight shirt around my pecs...that always helps
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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smoother than unsalted butter.
 

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So I kept going...while waiting for the train I saw a bicycle rider super fit stoner type chick dancing to her music.. I walked up and complimented her moves. She doesn't say anything but just gives me her ear phone to listen...lol

super cool chick...

long story short, we are both baseball fans, yadda yadda...i get the number before our train comes....how did I get it?

she lives in a cool town I never visit. I tell her to show me around and she's down.. So then I got the number. She's older, she brought it up. But super fit. Anyways...

now I'm on the train headed to the big city to hang about. Maybe eat..

lately I have been dressing according to color...been getting great honest feedback...try it out bros
 

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....it doesn't end there. While on the train I sit close to a hot girl I guess...
she looks me once...ok...she looks me twice. I wave to her and she smiles...i smile....

minute later she pulls out her make up mirror and blushes herself...i let her finish and ask her if I could get some around my cheeks lol...she says its not my color...funny girl...

then I left her be
 

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What do you mean when you say "you dress according to color." ? I want to make sure I am interrupting that right.

Also I think its great what you did. Honestly daytime is by far my favorite time to approach women and start up random conversations. Anytime I go out I dress up and look my best, even if its to go to the post office lol. The reason I do that is because I ALWAYS seem to bump into attractive women and I always get smiles, so I gotta feel my best.

Its great you picked up on the body language and jumped at it. Not sat there and waited, and thought about it no. You moved right on it. I feel seriously that a lot of women are waiting for the guy to make a move or open with a simple "hello *smile*" and guys just don't do it. But you did it bro!

Great work. Keep it up!:rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What I mean by the color thing is that I'm buying shirts and pants and matching them up with like colors.

I look color coordinated lol.

I look like a well put together man, as opposed to just jeans and a t shirt. Basically, I look at the well dressed chicks and I think, what would their mans or bfs be wearing. Its a big deal even though I'm the same dude on the inside, they prefer the polished version.
 

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But what do u fellas think about my McDonalds comment/joke to the hot chick?

I want to actually get her and date. I'm planning on working out some more and go back there and show off my arms next time.
 
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