"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dj_jazzybrad

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So yesterday was homecoming. I asked a girl who was really into me, wed kissed before, etc. Anyway we were talking and she said some girl bs about "im glad we're just going as friend because guys who are actually dates just follow you around and want to dance with you all the time". Regardless I took the cue and only found her about a half hour, 45 minutes in after dancing with a bunch of girls. so by this time I was warmed up, i was groovin, havin a good time. I just saw her grinding on another dude so i waited until a new song, went over, put my hands on her hips and started moving with her. she looked back at me, brushed them off, and moved like 2 feet away from me. I thought she didn't recognize me so I pulled her over, put her arms around my shoulders and she gave me a bad look and brushed me of. so I took the cue and danced with girls elsewhere. End of the dance comes around, I meet her by my ride to give her a ride home. Shes grabs her purse out of my car, gets out, shuts teh door and is like "so where were YOU all night. You didnt even want to dance with me more than once". I just said "bud i tried you brushed me off" and referred back to the conversation in which she said she was glad that i wasnt gonna follow her around and dance with her the whole time. Anyway im done with her stupid games by now and end up taking one of my good girl friends home. Later at home I was texting my dude friend about homecoming and i said "yeah man my date was being hella lame, wouldnt even dance with me". But instead of sending it to him, I accidentally sent it to my date... lol. So I was just gonna cut my losses, lather rinse repeat, you know the drill. I havent talked to her since she got it and said "wtf did you mean to send that to me". Do you think it's worth saving?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jeffthechef

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up to you...was she drunk at the dance?...if you really did try to dance with her and she didn't notice...something's wrong with her vision..and she's contradicting what she said befoer the dance...

if you want to save it...go up to her and talk about it...don't yell or get angry...for me it's easy...i'm extremely hard to piss off...i haven't yelled or been angry for about a year now...but if you easily get mad...you're going to have to figure out a way to suppress your anger

if you don't want to save it...iw ould still try to make it friendly with her....cause she might be an influence on your other conquests in the future
 

Five To One

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you didnt do anything wrong so dont apolagize.

dont go out of your way to explain yourself but if she does confront you then say "i didnt mean to send it to you but it was the truth"

this girl sounds wack, maybe she will see that she was in the wrong
 

dj_jazzybrad

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Haha no, she wasn't drunk, just playing stupid girl games again. Telling her friends and my dude friends that i ditched her... bs. The only thing I said so far is "sorry bud didnt mean to send that to ya, honestly". I think i'll talk to her tomorrow, its probably not worth saving but i don't want her being dumb later on.
 
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