"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Funniest thing (my sex appeal)

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Man the funniest thing happened today i'm a great guy funny and all so i approach this girl working at kroger and i joke with her and she say's "why do i get all these people" and so i say "the only reason i come around here is because you're so cute" and she goes "what" really shocked so i leave with my little brother and come back and she say's i'm stalking her

Long story short she starts talking about her "boyfriend" in the army and i tell her i'm in the army too (it's not that hard or great) and leave

the reason i post this is because this was an unsuccessful attempt at an pickup and it has me questioning my sex appeal the girl was not that good looking and i was joking with her and she acted like a douchebag and I'm not going to let it affect me because i'm know i'm a decent guy but man i feel as if i'm not good looking enough even though women (older) say i'm handsome if you guys can think of some way that i can get more attraction then i would like to here it thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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First of all, run-on sentences make most people's eyes bleed. Learn to use periods and commas, man.

As far as your question goes, I wouldn't worry about this one. Not-so-good-looking girls will often think that they aren't good enough for good-looking guys, so rather than pursuing the guys and being rejected, they just automatically reject them. It's a defense mechanism. Also, it's entirely possible that she was lying about her "boyfriend" in the army in order to 1) get you to leave, and 2) make her seem like more of a catch than she is.

In any case, if you're worried about your sex appeal, you should start taking measures to work on your appearance. Start lifting weights, buy nicer clothes, put more effort into grooming, etc. Also, you might want to look at Steps 5 through 7 in the DJ Bible.
 

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Chosen1 said:
"the only reason i come around here is because you're so cute" and she goes "what" really shocked

Long story short she starts talking about her "boyfriend" in the army and i tell her i'm in the army too (it's not that hard or great) and leave
Ouch, that line does make it sound like you're stalking her. But sounds like she was a ***** to begin with. Ignore her and move on bro.

She displayed some IOD to you bro telling about her boyfriend in the army.

Who knows, maybe she thought to herself "this guy probably thinks he's all that.. I'm gonna tear him apart!"

And ignore what older women say to ya bro. I've seen older women tell my friend that he's good looking and that he should get a girlfriend, but is he good looking? HELL NO! lol then again they tell me the same thing.. hahahaha the same could apply for me!

Hehe, if you wanna learn how to improve in the looks department post up a picture of yourself and we can give you some pointers.. hair.. clothing.. posture.. etc..
 

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NeonBase said:
Hehe, if you wanna learn how to improve in the looks department post up a picture of yourself and we can give you some pointers.. hair.. clothing.. posture.. etc..
I would love to, but not only do I not have a recent photo of myself, I don't even know how to use a scanner. I will tell you though that my hair is a mess, and my glasses make me look like a "nerd" thanks.
 

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If your glasses make you look like a nerd, then get contacts. If your hair is a mess, get it cut shorter.. If your skin is ugly, then treat it and change diet.. Hehe, for almost eery problem there is a solution. ;) I'm sure you can figure it out bro.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NeonBase said:
If your glasses make you look like a nerd, then get contacts. If your hair is a mess, get it cut shorter.. If your skin is ugly, then treat it and change diet.. Hehe, for almost eery problem there is a solution. ;) I'm sure you can figure it out bro.
Exactly!

Jim Gaffigan made a joke about this subject. He said if a good looking person smiles at you, you think they're nice, but if someone unattractive smiles at you, you think they're creeps!

I'm not saying you are ugly but you sound like you need some grooming work.

Another thing is your approach was too full on and forward. It did sounds like a bit of a creepy thing to say to be truthful.
 
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man dont worry about it, some of the ugliest fukin girls have dissed me they are so ugly they dont even count as girls (prob. minus 5 from scale 1 to 10)
and i have had some fine ass girls, cheerleaders etc.

so dont give a **** about ugly rats man
 
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