Fun things to try in the bedroom?/ FR

[Enjin 7]

I am looking for something fun and imaginitive to do with my gf. We are both staying virgins until marriage, so no penetration, but everything else is go.

We have done oral, but it was very straightforward, not much adventure.

I let her know monday that she was coming over thursday, and that were going to do some naughty ****. I'm playing dominant for this one. I am building the anticipation every day to the point where she is begging for it right now, 2 days before it happens. Its amazing.

anyway, here is what I have planned: tell her to put on a candy necklace, and I will eat it while we are making out (without shirts, NOT RUINING A SHIRT DAMMIT!). when I am done, she will feel a little sticky. at that time, I will invite her to take a shower with me. she will. then we will dry off, and I will lead her back to the bed and we will get to doing more stuff, in complete darkness.

any other ideas are definately welcome, as I am trying to get this to be the best night of her life sexually. (I currently hold the record with her prom night woot!)

 

[Jariel]

I was shocked to read you are staying virgins until marriage! It's not something I could do, but respect to you.

Anyway, check out my second post in this thread and give that a try...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=99379

 

[Enjin 7]

yessssssssssssssssss!!! she will totally go for that. thanks man.

 

[Tomatoes]

NO SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE...OMFG! I didnt think people like that still exsists!

Stupid idea imo.....Ends in devorces more than you think. Sexual Needs are required in any relationship if you ask me.....Emotions are strong. Love is eternal....but we are still biological animals with nature insticts at heart.

Back to topic...

Yeah Candy necklace is good idea. Candy G-string is also alot of fun. Chocolate works well too keeping with the food thing. Then you can still shower after.

Other erotic intense things to do is to tie her up.....women love being dominated and under your control.


Afterthought.....have you ever thought that you are needing to spice things up because your not having sex? That you are both not fully satisfied in the bedroom department. Im not here to challenge your belifs......but think about it

 

[Enjin 7]

lol yeah man. Its definately a challenge. I would say neither of us are really that disappointed with our sexual activities. we find it a source of pride actually.

that being said... we both want to **** lol

anyway, all of that sounds really good. I am spicing things up not because we aren't having sex, I would say it is more because every time we try to do something, her freaking mom walks in! dammit! lol

this thursday, we will be all by ourselves, free to enjoy each others bodies. Its definately going to be fun.

 

[KarmaSutra]

You crazy kids get props from me for sticking to your guns and not succumbing to societal and peer pressure.

Here's a novel idea, try banging her throat down Gag Factor style.:crazy:

Howard Stern had a contest one morning where he was searching for the woman most dedicated to her husband. A gaggle of worthless slvts called and bragged but it was a woman from Minnesota who said that every morning she would wake her husband up by sucking him almost to completion, then toss his salad while inhaling one of his farts and then blowing it back onto his face. Finally resuming her oral endeavor until he blew his load all over her face like a Krispy Kream donut. She would then get his morning clothes and breakfast together. I don't know if something kooky like this broad is what you had in mind but it sure is a memory for life.

That is love . . .

 

[future dj]

i've never understood the concept....people that will do oral, anal, etc but wont actually have vaginal intercourse....i knew a girl who was like that....she'd do all that stuff with tons of guys and yet thought she was better than the girls who had sex with one or two guys...

 

[Egoist]

oh what the hell....

 

[tihash]

Not challenging your beliefs at all, just curious...

Why no sex? It can't be religious reasons, right? I don't know of any religion that thinks sucking d!ck is ok but ****king is not.

 

[Enjin 7]

religion is partly a reason yes. for both of us.

the other side of it is I feel that something like that is designed for only one person. It is like you give your entire mind, body, and soul to them.

Christianity says that God created us so that it is the final joiner of two people, and forms a much deeper relationship. I'd rather not just start flailing that around.

 

[rapsta]

get a undewear off candy and lick itt upp ... clouse her eyes so that she will not see wath are u doing and with samething now handcafs tai her upp on the bed ,... i does not have to be total darknes u have to see her face expreshon .and u ask her how much she likes it ... make her go crazy ,totaly crazy ... make shour .. make a muve .. she shud not be sceared and marry her nex day )) ehhe

 

[dreamx]

No sex until marriage I think your a gay

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Dude. You are defeating the purpose. The point in "saving it for marriage" is to conquer your selfish lust & desires with another woman who has not been granted to you by the Lord(marriage) You think God is happy thinking you did every possible thing to her sexually you just havent actually stuck it into her v@gina? Im not here to judge, because I have messed up too. But I just wanna let you know man, because what you're saying really makes no sense.

 

[Enjin 7]

there are different views and I have thought about it a lot and discussed it with friends.

anyway

TONIGHT WAS FOR THE ****ING WIN! 4 hours straight. started making out... then turned off the lights. I put the candy necklace on her and then ate it off
dry humping. then on to the shower lit by candles. we dried off in front of the mirror and took pictures. then back to the bed dried off and then we did more bad things and then went to sleep. BOOYAH!

p.s. I did the light touch thing. it worked perfectly