Fun "Suprises" to take girls on

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Crissco

Master Don Juan

Jan 26, 2011

Naughty Ninja said:
Whatever the surprise you have planned is, try doing it with texts for "clues" or an email with different "clues" she'll have to figure out a week beforehand. Maybe offer her tips to help with the clues to keep a lighthearted convo going every so often during the week before the surprise. This could also reduce the chance of flaking as it may peak the girls curiosity a bit.

Thats what ive been trying to do. I have to work on that a big though.

If shes goes give me a hint, I usually respond....Hint-You, and me..

LOL..I need some help with this

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.