So long story short, this girl is begging me to come to the bar with her, and she wants to sleep with me (or as she calls it 'wheelin'.) and I have every intention going to the bar, but Im going to go home by myself, (I know some of you are probably saying thats dumb) but I figured it would make myself more of a challange and see if that effects her next move (positive or negative). If I do end up sleeping with her great, if not, no big deal. I just want to try this experiment.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
fun little experiment.
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