"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Frustration in a Relationship

lugsy211

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Anyone here ever found themselves madly frustrated about the way things are working out with the girlfriend? I really like my girl but I get on way better with nearly ever other girl. I don't know if its some kind of complex on my part that makes things so frustrating but I really want to get rid of this feeling. It makes me really jealous to see her getting on so easily with other guys too and I struggle with her in particularly.


What you guys think?
Drop her and maybe come back once we've got past this patch?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zerotwoonenine

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i think is because your insecuity that makes you jealous, if you cant stand her being around other guys, move on. Otherwise, up your game and be secure, know that shes your and just get on with it.
 

lugsy211

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Cheers for the advice man. The guys who hit on her are stupid losers, i shud be beter than that!:) :trouble: :rock:
 
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