Man this girl i like, i am way to into. I have a crush on her, its BAD. She knows it too, and she has her advantages with it. What can i do to severe my attachments to her ? Its getting me No where, and i need to get out there, but im just lacking the motivation.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Frustrated!!!!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
xhikari
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i don't think u need to severe any attachments man
just be yourself continue doing what u always do and well...don't show any kinda clue about it.
basically don't turn shy,petrified or whatever whenever you see her or anything basically no need any reactions at all.
when you feel like talkin to her go ahead...just don;t sound AFC, i am sure u know how it goes.
just be yourself continue doing what u always do and well...don't show any kinda clue about it.
basically don't turn shy,petrified or whatever whenever you see her or anything basically no need any reactions at all.
when you feel like talkin to her go ahead...just don;t sound AFC, i am sure u know how it goes.
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If she knows you are crushing on her and it has gotten you no where. Back off. The motivation will manifest itself.
yeah im planning on backing off. But i need something to get me going after other girls. I just sit htere, i never go up and say hi and ****. but then again school isnt always easiest place.Originally posted by belividere
If she knows you are crushing on her and it has gotten you no where. Back off. The motivation will manifest itself.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The exact opposite is true. Where else are you thrust in a lieu or locale that has such a concentration of possibilities?school isnt always easiest place
I think school concept was devised with the subconscious idea that it was a fertile ground for meeting members of the opposite sex.
College is like a sex carnival.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
hmmm this is kind of sticky. On one hand you want to get with her very badly, but she knows it which gives her power. On the other hand if you ignore her then you don't get any playtime.
I'd at least try to get her to go out for drinks, as that's my versitile awnser to alot of dating questions. I mean drinks aren't really hurting anybodies feelings and when you're at a bar just talking to a girl while she's loosing her inhibitions then typically positive good things happen. If you act right while at the bar and keep the talk lively then you might have a shot.
Otherwise I'd go the casual friends route. You see her from time to time but you don't always have to say hello or even wave unless she does. Then your responses should be short or you should have some where else to go. You want to spend less time with her to desensitize her then, after that you should meet up with her at a party, she should have at least a few things to talk to you about at that point. If not a secret confession just how things have been going for her over whatever time period you employ this technique.
I'd at least try to get her to go out for drinks, as that's my versitile awnser to alot of dating questions. I mean drinks aren't really hurting anybodies feelings and when you're at a bar just talking to a girl while she's loosing her inhibitions then typically positive good things happen. If you act right while at the bar and keep the talk lively then you might have a shot.
Otherwise I'd go the casual friends route. You see her from time to time but you don't always have to say hello or even wave unless she does. Then your responses should be short or you should have some where else to go. You want to spend less time with her to desensitize her then, after that you should meet up with her at a party, she should have at least a few things to talk to you about at that point. If not a secret confession just how things have been going for her over whatever time period you employ this technique.