Frustrated & Low

[The Frustrated Chump]

Hello So Suave Community. I come to you out of frustration, seeking aid.

You see, I call myself "The Frustrated Chump" because I am not an AFC. I am not average. I dress good, I have friends(social proof), I have read half of The Game and I know how to read some girls. But this one is hard.

I've just re-started talking to this girl I am interested in. She's seemed interested(or atleast she wants to be). I talk to her a bit over AIM and texting. But I always seem to get to land in the same spot. The conversation always short circuits and dies out. And I have no freaking idea how to recover and keep her interested. I need help.

 

[john paul]

Easy.
Dont talk to her as much on AIM and texting.

Set up a date and hang out wether it be just you and her or with friends because thats the only way to increase her attraction and get something done.

Its hard to increase a girls attraction over AIM and keep a normal conversation flowing.

I can talk with my girlfriend for hours but over instant messenger it dies within 10 minutes.

Try to cut texting and instant messenger out of your life.

 

[The Frustrated Chump]

Thank you John Paul, I'll keep that in mind. But right now I just dont know. I'm probably going to next her, and move on once again. But if she tries to talk to me(doubt it), then I'll just keep it simple and dont try anything. :-\

 

[The Frustrated Chump]

Well, I've made some improvement I have to say. I cut her out of AIM, and I only talk to her on there is when she IMs me. But then I only have the convo for like 10-10 mins before saying I gotta run.

But I'm still like a text feen. We're talking to each other, but its just pointless jibber jabber. But yet again, I have to remember she got out of a hard relationship not too long ago where she got ****in slammed. Which came to mind a couple days ago. Thats why I think she's not being really open and flirty.(Or maybe I just messed up more than once..Idk)

Edit: She's at the mall right now. And I know I could say something killer, but nothing is coming to mind.