"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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From Alpha Widows to Lesbians

Desdinova

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I've been thinking about the whole Alpha Widow situation and what happens to these women after the man at the top of her high score list is no longer there. Many women seem to just continue dating, looking for "the one" to fill his shoes (which doesn't happen). However, I never thought about the women who quit looking for a man. Some of them just get a bunch of cats and call it a day. Others will try dating, realize that they don't find men attractive, and explore the possibility that they're actually lesbians.

After thinking about the lesbians that I know, I realized that many of them actually DID date men at one point and no longer do. That man at the top of her high score list just never goes away. He can literally destroy a woman's ability to procreate, even though he doesn't realize it.

I honestly think that women actually can get more pleasure out of dating other women, simply because women are full of drama and can easily cause each other emotional fluctuation. That is the only way a woman can get close to replacing the man at the top of her high score list; by dating a woman. She may come close, but a silicone dildo could never be a match for a real penis. The man at the top of her HSL is still the winner.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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