"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Friendzoned?

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It might just increase your SMV towards her...
I banged 2 sisters last week doing this.. one started giving me head games. so i moved on.. I think she understands what happened tho and doesn't hate me cause I am chill.
Sorry man but what is SMV?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I like this idea. Arrive late so that way there's plenty of people already there. Go in, do intros for a few minutes. Scope the place out for hot chicks. If you find some, hit on them and pay attention to ONLY them. If they leave, you leave. If no hot chicks, leave after about 15 minutes of chatting with people.
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So I arrived about 3 hours late and it backfired on me. All the single girls were gone. The best part about the night was arriving and being greeted by her ex at her new house. So I guess they got back together. The funny thing about the night was the obvious awkwardness between her and him when she would make a subtle flirty remark towards me. I've had a few so I'll be a little ****y here, I look about 5X better than this guy. Probably smarter than him too. Though I think his income is higher than mine and that might be the deciding factor for this broad. Anyway, I've known this broad is good for nothing. And I've spent very little time trying to attract her but goddamn it really irritates me that I was SO close to banging her. Her body is outstanding and if she would've wise up, we'd be having amazing sex for at least a few months.

If my theory holds up, keeping her around one way or another, I'll end up f*cking her. I don't give up so easily.
 

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I wouldnt do **** for this girl until shes blowing your phone up wondering what shes missing out on. Shes into you enough to invite you to do shyt and you just keep jumping through HER HOOPS.
Yea man I felt a little like a puppet there. We met through a mutual friend so I thought she'd be a little more genuine with me. Not the case I suppose.

By the way I realized I was just her "fill-in" guy while her and her man were going through their issues. Seems like they resolved them.
 
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