"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Friendzoned! Wait.. What Friendzone?

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So lets say you woke up one day, and for some reason WANT to be friendzone by girls.. crazy right? this is like the worst thing you could want to do. You start out meeting women at school.. work.. bars.. parties.. supermarkets. With the intent of just being a social person, NO intention of attracting WHAT SO EVER. So the girl is thinking.. "oh hes just a cool guy, he isnt hitting on me or anything.. wait why isnt he hitting on me? he must be shy.. yeah.. but wait he approached me.. i dont get it.. whatever tho"

So you get up to about 10 "friendzone" relationships with cute girls, you get to a point where, its funny facebook comments back and forth.. text messages back and forth about random, fun vibey stuff, you even talk to them about their current boys, they are talking to.. messing with etc.. even give some advice to them to help them

Like WTF this is the OPPOSITE of everything you've learned, why the HELL would you be "friends" with a girl, why the hell would you give advice to her for ANOTHER guy. Crazy right?

So you have 10 good relationships with 10 cute girls, so now your inviting them out to a local bar, where they are bringing their friends.

your cute new friendzone: hey girls, the305 invited us to the new bar downtown, yah you know the305, the cool funny one, i told you about him.

So you invite the 10 girls and all their friends out to the downtown bar, only 3 girls show up BUT with 3 friends each, you now have 9 girls at the bar that came because of YOU. and the best part is, you are being introduced to 6 new girls, that ONLY know: you are a cool guy AND friends with HER best friend.

But wait this is crazy, you'd rather be out chasing girls with your wing, trying to seduce them.. and dealing with logistics.. and their **** blocking friends, and their ***** shields, instead of hanging out with 9 girls, who will NATURALLY be interested in you, in how the HELL you know all these cute girls. Crazy huh.. lol

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I live in miami beach, so the night life is one of the best in the world, hands down we have some of the most gorgeous women period. I'm at a point where when I go out to a bar/lounge its with 2-3 guys and 10+ women, we walk straight in, into the VIP because ANY major establishment will sit you right in VIP if you bring 10 hot girls. Could I sleep with every one of the girls i hang out with, ofcourse not.. But the ones I am interested in, its like CAKE, its to a point where I have so much perceived value in their eyes, they are interested in ME, wanting to know more about ME, you NEED a personality that is congruent, I cant be this quite shy guy, i need to be the fun positive, living in the moment kind of guy.

Is this the only way to get women, OF COURSE NOT, i STILL love, going out with my wing, or alone and just meeting women, and flirting, and turning up the sexual vibe, to a point where there nothing else to do but.. have some sex =), lol. I love that, its a thrill to me, but its tiring and gets old after a while, it looses its appeal. So i switch back and forth.

I genuinely like having girl friends as friends, all of my knowledge on how women interact and the natural reaction patterns they follow i've learned from having girl "friends"

This isn't a method or a routine or anything, its purely a route I took, and i've shared the info when many guys stuggling with women and not having a "fun" life in general.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ahhh much more clear in this post...


totally get what you're going for, but still totally disagree on your suggestion in each of the specialized situations you've used it in on these threads. as a general way of life? this "strategy" can easily work well!

personally, if there's one random girl with whom you have no "best friend" ties like you described, then the best way for me to get her is to be sexual and push the envelope with the conversation. i can't just try to find a friend of hers, convince her i'm a cool guy, and get her to go talk me up to her friend.

no offense meant, i take the direct route of the man. i see what i want, i make her wet in the panties, and we fvck. im not one for the roundabout efforts like that
 

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If I want one specific girl, I would focus on the comfort/chemistry first before, not touching on anything sexual, unless i'm trying to bang the $hit out of her the first night. If you are going to see her again.. no need to leap over the comfort zone. Build a little comfort, once she reacts to it, start with some flirting, jump right into sexual doesn't fly with some girls.

then again its all relative, if know just KNOW, she is down for whatever you throw out.. go for it!!
 
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