"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friends will betray you for females

DanelMadr

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Warrior74 said:
You must not have been to the hood in the last 20 years. Step on someone's brand new Air Jordans... Fight, then shoot out, then someone in the hospital or jail. So smart. So fvcking smart.
Step on someone's brand new Air Jordans....still cool if you Do apologize. If you try being an azzhole, well it is time for shootout.

Of course I don't think it is cool to shoot someone over a dirt on shoes and these guys are seriously not healthy. On the other hand I do understand them. You let one step on your foot without demanding apology and next thing you know they demand to give them your shoes, because they think you are a b!tch.

I do have strong dilemma when sitting in the cinema and some azzhole keeps talking on his phone or doing some lame loud remarks every 2 minutes.
Tell him to shut the fvck up and risk missing the whole movie, because he probably won't unless you do shut him up in person. Or let it slide? The same with people kicking your seat. I am big guy but I never kick someones seat. These fvckers get high on this shyt and I just can't stand it. The same with people deliberately pushing at you on the street. OK they hate me for no reason or maybe because I'm taller or remind them of someone or they are just fvcking suicidal....so make their wish granted.

I'm really calm and collected person but this shyt makes me boil. And I hate to let it slide and then kick myself for three days over it. I am strong believer that you don't let azzholes get away with it. If I don't remind them who will?
Actually I've seen a guy deliberately knocking an older daddy with his shoulder...he just span around caught him by his jacket under his neck and trashed with him like a rag doll. The azzhole was looking surprised and scared as hell.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guoy Darko

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This sounds maybe lame, but I would just go talk to that friend if I were you. It looks like you only had a talk with him at night when you were super pissed and maybe drunk. Just ask him why the **** he did that. Let him talk. He probably realises then that he crossed the line. If not, you know what to do. But tell him the rules and say that he disappointed you and also tell him about the other time he did that.

I'm sometimes also super pissed at friends of mine and then I don't want to talk to them any more. But when I ask them what their behaviour was all about, it never turns out to be that horrible as I'd expected it to do.

Good luck.
 
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