Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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tobby

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I keep losing my female friends from facebook. It's weird to me though. If we're all friends why would they randomly remove me like that? Were they expecting something more or something like that? :rolleyes: Anyone else have this sh*t happen to you?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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banGbro

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They are not true friends, just acuitances. I met this one chick long long ago, like 99 or something, I was in college and shes suicidal on MSN, lol. We still keep chatting.

Let me ask you this, have you banged those chicks? How you at least met them in person?
 

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change your password, it could be a mate that decided to fvck with you
 

tobby

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I guess you're right. Since some of them are acquaintances, I guess they decided that they don't need to be friends with me. I thought it was a little strange since some of them were classmates with me. Either way it doesn't matter. Most men don't really remove people though, I've noticed this is particularly a pattern of women! Maybe it's their overinflated egos or something. :D
 

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When you have a ****load of friends (ie people you don't even know) it tends to get annoying on the news feed. How well do you really know them? Even if you talked to them only like once a week in passing it's not likely they'd remove you. People don't do it without reason.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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tobby said:
I keep losing my female friends from facebook. It's weird to me though. If we're all friends why would they randomly remove me like that? Were they expecting something more or something like that? :rolleyes: Anyone else have this sh*t happen to you?
Same crap happen to me. I noticed it 2 days ago. This girl who I actually know through a friend removed me as a friend. Why I don't know. It's very weird. But she is very weird. SO it should not surprise me. Besides her no one else removed me. Who does that? I mean....some people are just CRAZY. Especially college women.
 
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