"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Friend zone F**kfriend

The Italian Baws

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Aight here we go. I've known this girl for maybe 3 months and we are good friends and I hate to have girl_friends you know I wanna get out of the friend zone but I just don't know how.I just wanna b**g her. Tricks?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dimehair

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1. Prolong eye contact. Put a smile in there to keep it from being creepy... unless she's into that.
2. Start touching her shoulders, upper arm, etc. If you're both standing and facing the same way, give her a quick side hug if you want (as consolation, as a congratulatory "good job!"). -Quick unrelated note. Today a guy was gaming a girl in one of my classes and she was kinoing him. He said,"What are you using your kinesthetics on me for?" I thought,"Sosuave?"
3. If you two are in a big group, tell a sex joke if it's in your character. They don't necessarily have to be hot steamy jokes. A "hicks are into incest" joke would work fine. If you're not funny, make sure the jokes have a lot of shock value.
 

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The Italian Baws said:
Aight here we go. I've known this girl for maybe 3 months and we are good friends and I hate to have girl_friends you know I wanna get out of the friend zone but I just don't know how.I just wanna b**g her. Tricks?
You need to stop acting like a friend. Don't hang around with her as much, when you do, make sure you flirt with her, touch her, lots of eye contact.
 

baws

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Happened to me also, just like others said, don't act like a friend.
 
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