okay I have another problem on my hand, just need some advice from some people. Well for those who don’t know let me give you a quick run down on what’s going on with my situation. There’s this girl that I actually like, she still can’t get over her EX. Me and her had something going on a bit before, no physical contact I know I know I screwed up hUGE. Well i stopped talking to her for a bit, just to get my space and let her get hers. Now were talking again and im just doing my thing and she’s doing her thing, basically not much contact. There’s this other guy in the picture that I think is trying to take her away, hes a family friend of hers and she claims he’s a friend, but her parents are pushing her to date this guy. he’s gone away for 2 months; now is the time to pounce. The other day she said that our “friendship” is weird, its not like the friendship I have with all my other guy friends, I asked her what she meant but she couldn’t explain, I said perhaps its because of our past she said perhaps. I believe that’s a huge signal. How should I take this now, she’s asked me a couple times how come I never call her, I just tell her im busy with ****. Should I still play the low key im a busy guy game, or should I play a bit aggressive and try to make a move on her? And just to get it out there I don’t want no relationship with this girl anymore but I really want to **** her, she gets a lot of attention from guys, so I don’t want to come off like a regular joe…..
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Friend into Lover(ganji or aggresive game?)
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