"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FR: "You Sound Like a Player"

drak_ool

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take a guess: what do you think happened at the end of the night with the chick who uttered those words? :D

Two nights ago I met up with 3 girls who were visiting from out-of-state. I knew girl 1 (target) and 2, and I also knew that girl 2 wanted me nuts but I was not interested. So driving to the club I was a little apprehensive about the dynamics of the situation, but decided to bulldoze my way through.

As soon as I walk in, girl 1 is showing strong IOIs so I just start rolling with it. They've all been drinking by this point and are pretty loosened up. After a short convo with girl 1, I turn to the two others (and their AFC guy friend who they're staying with) and start talking with them, turning my back on girl 1 and completely ignoring her for the next 5 min. She's tucking on my arm, tries to jump in the convo but I keep my focus solely on the other girls. At this point I start realizing that this will be a lot easier than I thought.

Suddenly I turn to girl 1, grab her arm and take her to the bar: "let's do a shot." She is more than happy to oblige and follows my lead. At the bar we're talking with our faces really close, I mean noses touching basically because of the loud music. It's at this point that she mentions that I sound like a player (don't remember what I was saying), while at the same time feeling my arms. I laugh it off with a "takes one to know one" and we take the shot. She only drinks half but I refuse to leave before she finishes her glass (complete frame control). From the convo it transpires that she had been stalking me on facebook (who said FB doesn't help your game?), even read my blog that links to my FB page. I'm realizing the IL is very high...

Right after, I take her to the dancefloor and almost instantly go for the kiss. In between making out she asks me "what are you grabbing?" (her butt) yet makes no effort to takes my hand away. From this point on, one of my hands is glued to her butt (a very nice one I might add) until the end of the night. On her end, she keeps feeling my upper body under my shirt, telling me how sexy I am.

End of night, they're all about to cram back in their AFC friend's car to go back to his house, so I offer her a ride. When we get to the place the other girls go into their room, the guy as well and we are left alone on the couch, with my hands getting busy under her dress.

I'll leave the rest to your imagination gents!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"you sound like a player" usually means "damn I want a piece of that".

That's awesome. I've had girls say it to me before and I just casually deny it and change the subject.
Incidentally I can distinctly remember two chicks who said it to me then were later sucking my d1ck like it was the antidote to a killer virus.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
I've had girls say it to me before and I just casually deny it and change the subject.
The interesting thing with this girl was that I could tell from how she said it, her body language and her overall attitude towards me that she liked the fact I was a player, that's why I didn't even tried to deny it. I hung out with her the next day and she mentioned it a few more times, always in an admiring way...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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