FR : Work colleague's birthday party

[blind_one]

She's a good friend of mine we always have a good vibe, but its not a thread about her but about me

It was a surprise party , planned to be a short one as it was on Sunday and we work Mon-Fri. We out in the group, drink, laugh, listen to music. Fun times. Me, that Agnes girl and Mickey leave as its almost midnight. She's a friend of the birthday girl and of my former FWB ( she moved to the other side of the country, still calls me ). We decide to grab a beer at Mickey's place as its not far away. We lay on the couch ME HIM HER. After he goes to the bathroom she moves to me and says that he's creepy and we should move.

" I'll think of something and we move " - I retort
She initiates kino. We coyly touch with our palms and fingers.
He gets back, we leave. She checks my transportation. I still have like 40 minutes so I walk her home, as we arrive she says that sadly her parents are home. LoL but "I just want to use the bathroom " Sadly I did not think about it . I check time and we still have plenty so we take a walk, dark park , good kino, makeout session. I walk her back take her number kiss her goodbye and leave.

Text a couple of days about something she was supposed to do, 2 small talk texts about how hungover the birthday girl was next day and we schedule a date. ( Gave her wed/thur option, she's free thursday).

Her responses were after long times so she might flake but who cares.

6 PM tomorrow heading out for drinks , logistics are good and everything is set.

Will report later.

 

[blind_one]

Well that was different, and a new one for me to be honest . But a good experience after all.
Its 6 PM we meet I kiss her on the cheek ( maybe she turn I don't remember ) and stroll to the pub.
We spend there overall maybe an hour and half. We sit next to each other from the start so after some time I move closer so that our legs and thighs touch. She doesn't move away. First just talking then I start teasing her a bit an she's eating that up getting flustered like a child, poking each other tickling good fun. When the drinks are about to run dry I decide we should grab some fresh air and we go. ( Seriously the one who posted this line deserves a medal ).

We are going to my place of course, during that she asks me are we going left ( to the beach ) and I said nope.
- Where are we going ?
- We are going straight ahead ( LOL)

I open the door and I can sense she is a little shocked there. I put my hand on the small of her back and gently motion her in saying " Welcome ". We go to my room, I bring a bottle of wine and while we put on some music that we both like I dim the lights. She sits on my lap while I change the music at the PC, I stroke her hair at the back of her skull, gently caress here lower tigh. We make out.

After some time she mentions

- One of us will be disappointed today
- I make an "amused face" and ask what does she mean
- Oh you know what I mean - She says, to which I just roll eyes. ( She does not know who she's dealing with )

We sip on the wine, making out in between talking about the music in the background for some time.
I grab her and put her on the bed heavy makeout, she is moaning now as I again strike her at the neck and collar bone. After a couple of minutes she again mentions that I might be dissapointed today. To which I stay nothing and just continue.

Couple of minutes later she basicly moves closer to me so that I can put my leg between in her crotch, I undo her bra, she is in a dress so we laugh about thats its gonna be hard to pull off.

Some more minor tricks with the quilt , since her feet are cold and .... I start to massage her and she's in heaven, down just to her panties. She breaks away once more and again mentions that I might be dissapointed today , because she doesn't want to go this far, which I conveniently ignore again.

We banter, hug, make out, I massage her ass and these areas. So and she finally tells me that she's a bit embarrassed.

Something is up.

We talk a bit and I ease her up again and when she's more comfortable she tell's me she is a virgin.

We talk some more as I get some more background.

She's 25, till around 20 she was very religious, alcohol, cigarettes and parties were bad. Studies Oceanautics at X University of technology. Good girl overall. Now I would not believe her bull**** but my gut tells me that it might be true, considering the amount of other personal information she shared or I probed from her.

She says the night and I drive her home in the morning as we both have our errands to run and its on my way to work.

The Keys, The Aftermath and bullet points :

- My texting game was short and sweet, it made her hamster spin with uncertainty ( she commented on that as well
- She wanted to have my shirt , when I took it off and was shocked by my physique as I look better naked ( gotta pump moar iron, and keep on upgrading my wardrobe )
- We both know she wanted the **** and but was mentally blocked and she was happily having her cl!t stroked so I backed off and retained my composure.
- From the get go I knew she knew I fvcked her friend and good, a couple of times ( in fact she was my plate for over a year, she caught feellings but I kept it the way I wanted )
- She initiates texts now, I feel her IL rose a great deal
- Never dealt with a virgin. I feel like 1-2 more meetings and I could seal the deal however....

I do not want her to get attached which I believe is almost inevitable if I take her virginity
I do not view her as a relationship material.

So basicly what I have on hand is a cool chick I wouldn't mind having a FWB relationship with as she's allright in the head and quite inteligent but might get attached and hurt, which is the last thing I want.

I'll play my cards right and see how it goes.

You are always welcome to comment on my adventures !