cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
Oh, boy 
I almost got accidently ****blocked by my female friend, lol. Check this out:
Wednesday nights at a lounge I frequent are a mixed bag. It's $1 beers for the gentlemen, and $0.50 well drinks for the ladies. These two things, plus live local hip hop and metal make for interesting situations.
Me and a buddy of mine went down there to meet his dad for a bit and check out the situation. Usually, it's freakin packed inside, but this Wednesday was different because one of the band members broke his arm riding dirt bikes, so no live music. We happen to be pretty tight with the owner, who's girlfriend has a daughter who works in the bar on wednesdays.....and she's pretty hot, I'd say HB 8.5-9.
Anyhow, this girl brought a friend who was pretty hot as well, a solid HB 8. At the time we got there, there was all of maybe 15 people in the bar, and only a few HB's and plenty of UG's. I saw a female friend of mine, who's actually my buddy the bartender's girl, so we started chatting. This girl is a true FRIEND of mine, a blond HB 8 with huge cans and a very bubbly personality. People always think we have something going on for some reason, and her boyfriend (my buddy the bartender) once even asked her if we ever had something going on. (never happened, btw...she's not my type, but she's cool as a friend and usually great 'social proof').
Sooo, I'm sitting there talking to my female friend, and this girl, the HB 8 I spoke of earlier: the one who's the owner's girlfriend's daughter's friend (sheesh!) keeps on looking over at me and when I try to hold EC, she drops almost immediately! This happened 4-5 times, and my female friend takes off to play video poker after a little bit.
My buddy's dad says "Man, if you don't go talk to her, I'm gonna smack you!", meaning the no EC girl. It WAS the plan, and she WAS the target ANYWAY, so I was looking for a way to initiate conversation because the EC thing f*cking tanked big time. I started talking to my buddy the bartender about the ladies' $0.50 drinks, and I said kinda loud, "Man, for $0.50 drinks, I'll dress up as a woman next week!". The target, HB-black hair I'll call her, says to nobody in particular "I wouldn't mind seeing that". So I said "Will you supply the clothes?". She says "Hmmm, I don't know....are you gonna wear a bra and stuff it too?"
I said "We'll see, I'll think about it". Then I told she should slide over next to me and talk to me. She did, then she asked me if my g/f would mind! I said I don't have a g/f, and she asked me who my female friend was. I told her she was only a friend, and that I was free to speak to any pretty girl I wanted to. I think she was actually intimidated by my friend for some reason.
She laughed and we chatted for about an hour. We discussed college, she's a criminal justice major with a chemistry minor, smart girl. Discussed my job (I'm a network technician). Talked about all kinds of sh*t. Got plenty of IOI's
My buddy's dad left (after paying for all our drinks - sweet!) and HB-black hair's friend came back over and asked if we all wanted to go someplace else. My bro didn't have ID with him, so he advised me to go with the ladies and he'd meet up with us later I did, and we went to a place a few miles away. That bar was beat, cops everywhere, so we hung out for a few to let the BS subside, and HB-black hair's friend disappeared!
We found out later she took off with some guy she knew and didn't bother to tell her friend. We went to another bar, had a few more drinks, and decided to go back to her place. Cool. My buddy called back, and came over to have a few more beers, as if any one of us needed them. Eventually, he said he wanted to go home, and HB-black hair said it was just fine if I wanted to hang out with her, and my bro agreed to come back and get me in the morning.
We went down to her room, and since we were both 'tired', we hopped in bed and did the heavy make out session thing, but when I tried to go a little further, she said "Not this time....a girl's gotta have standards....but I definitely want there to be a next time". Now some people would get bent by this, but not me. I respect the hell out of her for saying that.
Got the digits, a hickey on my chest, and about 2 hours of sleep. Next Wednesday, same spot, nookie pending.
Still trying to figure out if she didn't want to seem like a slut or exactly what the hell went wrong....I'm not at all disappointed even though I wouldn't have minded waking her roomates up! Not quite sure if I did something wrong, or if she's not interested sex wise or what.
Thoughts?
I almost got accidently ****blocked by my female friend, lol. Check this out:Wednesday nights at a lounge I frequent are a mixed bag. It's $1 beers for the gentlemen, and $0.50 well drinks for the ladies. These two things, plus live local hip hop and metal make for interesting situations.
Me and a buddy of mine went down there to meet his dad for a bit and check out the situation. Usually, it's freakin packed inside, but this Wednesday was different because one of the band members broke his arm riding dirt bikes, so no live music. We happen to be pretty tight with the owner, who's girlfriend has a daughter who works in the bar on wednesdays.....and she's pretty hot, I'd say HB 8.5-9.
Anyhow, this girl brought a friend who was pretty hot as well, a solid HB 8. At the time we got there, there was all of maybe 15 people in the bar, and only a few HB's and plenty of UG's. I saw a female friend of mine, who's actually my buddy the bartender's girl, so we started chatting. This girl is a true FRIEND of mine, a blond HB 8 with huge cans and a very bubbly personality. People always think we have something going on for some reason, and her boyfriend (my buddy the bartender) once even asked her if we ever had something going on. (never happened, btw...she's not my type, but she's cool as a friend and usually great 'social proof').
Sooo, I'm sitting there talking to my female friend, and this girl, the HB 8 I spoke of earlier: the one who's the owner's girlfriend's daughter's friend (sheesh!) keeps on looking over at me and when I try to hold EC, she drops almost immediately! This happened 4-5 times, and my female friend takes off to play video poker after a little bit.
My buddy's dad says "Man, if you don't go talk to her, I'm gonna smack you!", meaning the no EC girl. It WAS the plan, and she WAS the target ANYWAY, so I was looking for a way to initiate conversation because the EC thing f*cking tanked big time. I started talking to my buddy the bartender about the ladies' $0.50 drinks, and I said kinda loud, "Man, for $0.50 drinks, I'll dress up as a woman next week!". The target, HB-black hair I'll call her, says to nobody in particular "I wouldn't mind seeing that". So I said "Will you supply the clothes?". She says "Hmmm, I don't know....are you gonna wear a bra and stuff it too?"
I said "We'll see, I'll think about it". Then I told she should slide over next to me and talk to me. She did, then she asked me if my g/f would mind! I said I don't have a g/f, and she asked me who my female friend was. I told her she was only a friend, and that I was free to speak to any pretty girl I wanted to. I think she was actually intimidated by my friend for some reason.
She laughed and we chatted for about an hour. We discussed college, she's a criminal justice major with a chemistry minor, smart girl. Discussed my job (I'm a network technician). Talked about all kinds of sh*t. Got plenty of IOI's
My buddy's dad left (after paying for all our drinks - sweet!) and HB-black hair's friend came back over and asked if we all wanted to go someplace else. My bro didn't have ID with him, so he advised me to go with the ladies and he'd meet up with us later
I did, and we went to a place a few miles away. That bar was beat, cops everywhere, so we hung out for a few to let the BS subside, and HB-black hair's friend disappeared!We found out later she took off with some guy she knew and didn't bother to tell her friend. We went to another bar, had a few more drinks, and decided to go back to her place. Cool. My buddy called back, and came over to have a few more beers, as if any one of us needed them. Eventually, he said he wanted to go home, and HB-black hair said it was just fine if I wanted to hang out with her, and my bro agreed to come back and get me in the morning.
We went down to her room, and since we were both 'tired', we hopped in bed and did the heavy make out session thing, but when I tried to go a little further, she said "Not this time....a girl's gotta have standards....but I definitely want there to be a next time". Now some people would get bent by this, but not me. I respect the hell out of her for saying that.
Got the digits, a hickey on my chest, and about 2 hours of sleep. Next Wednesday, same spot, nookie pending.
Still trying to figure out if she didn't want to seem like a slut or exactly what the hell went wrong....I'm not at all disappointed even though I wouldn't have minded waking her roomates up! Not quite sure if I did something wrong, or if she's not interested sex wise or what.
Thoughts?
