Walden
Master Don Juan
Was trying to get that bonding bit going on with HBJailbait today. She mentioned her best friend , so I went into "HOw do you know he's your best friend ?" I got a puzzled look and went into a story about how I find that with my best female friends that even when you first meet them it's like you already know them , like you find someone on your "wavelength". Then I asked her iof she'd ever bonded with someone insrtantly like that....
One of her rules for someone she's close to is that she can tell them about anything, so iasked her for an example...
As we talked I could totally see her going into the various states we were discussing.
Unfortunatley this shot me straight into an unintentional self friendzoning
Next time I'll follow it with the bit about when you find someone like a lover who there's that certain spark to it as well and see ifI can put the girl into that state.
Key lesson here is that you should shoot for a close bond , but that in doing so you come within a c*** hair of the friendzone (which in my case I landed right into today
One of her rules for someone she's close to is that she can tell them about anything, so iasked her for an example...
As we talked I could totally see her going into the various states we were discussing.
Unfortunatley this shot me straight into an unintentional self friendzoning
Next time I'll follow it with the bit about when you find someone like a lover who there's that certain spark to it as well and see ifI can put the girl into that state.
Key lesson here is that you should shoot for a close bond , but that in doing so you come within a c*** hair of the friendzone (which in my case I landed right into today