"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Had an outing last night that could have gone better. I made some pretty crucial mistakes that cost me the evening and a pretty rare opportunity. Lets here comments from the experts and the novices about what I did wrong here.

I got home from work around 10:30 and called up one of my club happy friends to see if he wanted to do anything. He said he had a friend in town and they were down for Body English or Light as it was his friends last night in town. I put in my two cent for Body English because Sunday meant Sunday School is in session there and locals get in free. He agrees and says he'll swing by my place around 11 to pick me up. I notice my phone is on the virge of death so I plug it into the charger and put it next to my bed. I scramble downstairs for an udon bowl, shave, and throw on some club appropriate gear. My friend shows up a little while after 11 we have some shots of JB and roll out. A few minutes onto the road I realize I left my phone plugged in at my house but don't think too much of it.

Just before we get to the Hard Rock H&C we realize there's a concert just letting out when we got there so the club line will be monsterous. Which of course we confirm after parking and heading inside. We split into two (their two to my one) groups and start going to work on the door men. I kinda know the guest host but I let that connection dry up a while back and he's super busy with other people who actually know him. I tell him I've got three local guys and he gets a pretty sour look on his face. I recruit two groups of 5 girls one after the ohter, but they end up getting let in after I bring them to the front. We decide to take a breather and hit up the side bar, have a drink and some more shots. My friend's friend is being kind of a downer with that "we're never getting in" bs but I don't really mind it too much. We head back to the line and shoot some slick lines to the guest host and he remembers who I am and lets us in...it took like an hour to do all this but when we get in, it was worth it because the party was just getting started.

We hit up one of the bars, more shots, more drinks then we hit the dance floor. I'm pretty cool on the dance floor, socializing with the homeboys light dancing, and checkin out the potential in the club. I'm getting some looks but nothing too interesting at first. After turning it out a bit, I notice a HB8 (Stats: 6'0" great face, long brown hair, c cups, curvy hips) with a HB6.5 (stats: 5'3" average face, long black hair, d cups, a little stout). I definatley note where they are but I stick with my wing, who's still on the prowl for some of the h0s on the center stage. Not for long though because those girls treversed the dance floor and where up on us in a heart beat. My friend sees them and tells me the tall one is all mine becaue he's a shorty and that's not his style.

This girl is SHY! I try dancing with her but she say she doesn't really like this song and is kinda two stepping. I go back to dancing alone while my friend is doing some weird/funny dancing with the other girl. Looked pretty goofy but got her laughing and after a while she started grabbing on him. I'm looking the tall one over planning the best course of action. I decide that my best course of action was just to try to hold a conversation with her over the 30,000 watt system that Body English host. I had to talk directly into her ear and in doing so I got to get really close and apply some under the radar kino that was working because she got more and more comfortable with me the more I touched her and spoke to her.

Turns out this girl is living in cali on a student visa and is orginallly fom the Czech Republic. The accent is driving me nuts. I'm poking fun at her because she's not really into the hip hop scene and I say how this isn't realy a techno club. She's laughing and telling me how they play ALL kinds of music in the clubs in her home land, there's just no variety here. I tell her to tell the DJ to spin something different if she's not down. She of course meets my challenge and goes to the booth. When she comes back she looks discouraged. I ask her what's wrong and she says they're closing soon so they're going to grind it out on hip hop. I tell her I know a good after hours place we could go to and she's down. I look around and see one of my friend but not hers or our other friend. She's getting ancy and wants to move on to get out of there and go to the other club so I tell my friend to stay with her and I'll gather our forces. I find her friend and hustle her over to the others. Then I go looking for our last boy...I find him and he's pretty tossed. I bring him back to the group but the girl lost her friend again! I send her off this time to find her while we wait for them at the exit. She comes back shortly and I can see her friend as we're exiting.

Out side the club the girl is telling me how much cuter I look in the light and asking me about my personal life and stuff now that we can hear each other better. She's smiling having a good time but is fustrated with her friend who it turns out is with another she met as they exit the club. My friend sees that her friend is with a dude and he his friend start walking quickly towards the car kinda pissed. I talk to the new dude with the shorter girl and tell him where we're going. My friend are almost out of ear shot so I tell the guy just to meet us there. The girl i'm with is sicking close to me and the guy ask if she's going to ride with us or with him? I say she should go with her friend and we'll just meet them there. In our car the attitude had changed. My team was done. I tell them we're going to empire ball room for late night and they're like after we get some fast food. I'm kind of discouraged but whatever, tell them fine lets go. We go to jack n the box, which is ofcourse closed, we then go to McD's which of course is also closed (it's like 4:30am) ... I sense impending doom. We're driving on las vegas blvd north towards where empire ball room is and my friends are whining. My friends friend is in downer mode again and is talking about how hungry he is then like clockwork my friend is like "do we really have to go to empire?". They tell me if I have a shot I should go but unless they get in for free and I can garuntee results then they should go home. I just tell them to turn it around and head for the 215 back to the house, I can't stand whining. We stopped at a del taco and I got some chips and salsa before getting dropped off as the morning twiglight was on the eastern front.

So lets hear it, where did I go wrong here and what could I have done to make the evening turn out some what in my favor?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bump: ^^Important learning information found with in^^
I know it's kinda long and nobody likes homework but lets see some effort here.
 

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Super Bump. Forgot about this one from ages ago (even though I hooked up with another tall foreign chick last month...strange)
I got no responses on a homework FR?! I'm giving you all DETENTION!
 

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So lets hear it, where did I go wrong here and what could I have done to make the evening turn out some what in my favor?

------------->"What's your phone number?"<---------------------

That's about it.

(I guess nobody read it before, because it says Sunday School, so they thought it was sarging in church or something.)
 

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Phyzzle said:
------------->"What's your phone number?"<---------------------

That's about it.

(I guess nobody read it before, because it says Sunday School, so they thought it was sarging in church or something.)
Yeah not asking for her number was a big mistake. I'm so use to the number exchange that It didn't even occur to me that I could still use pen and paper OR ask what her room number was in the Frontier.

There's more though, I goofed big time on this one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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