Just thought I'd throw a successful FR out there. It is long, but it's also good if you have the patience. And remember a DJ needs to be able to exercise some patience... Anyway, I decided to put this up because:
1. I'm sure everyone needs a break from "how do I get this girl?" threads once in a while
2. There's some great tips in there
3. It's a funny story in it's own right
A while ago I met a receptionist (HBhottie) who's an incredible 19yr old hottie, sweet and going to uni. Anyway, to be honest I didn't really notice her at the beginning, I was building fantastic rapport with a few of her co-workers, bit of flirting, half hour convo's after a workout maybe two or three days a week. However they had BF's, so realistically I wasn't really gunning for them, just enjoying the fluff. They thought I was great, and told as much so many times. (lesson here - if your target is even remotely attracted to you, and her friends adore you, you're in...) HBhottie was there as well, and though a little reserved (but still friendly) at first, she started to really open up over the space of a month or so.
Now HBhottie really came on to my radar when one day I was chatting to her and discovered we both had a love of books and art. Two days later I showed her examples of what I had done - interest level escalated right there. The next day she called me (had tracked my number down) and we went for dinner. Had her laughing and generally had a good time but body language was off somehow so didn't move in for the kill. (yes I know - wuss) Interestingly enough 3 days earlier I had busted a superb line on one of her co-workers (a model and a cool chick to boot) who I had built great rapport with. She had been telling me about this great guy she had just started seeing when I said
Un-Aru: "Hmmm, you're really into him, that's gonna make things awkward." HBmodel: "why?"
Un-Aru: "When I take you out to dinner.."
She had a blank stare and stammered for a few seconds (and she is the queen of wit) then said "If it doesn't work out with him, hell yeah" Haha good stuff.
Anyway, asked HBhottie out twice during the next week or so, to which I got the classic response of "We'll see." Haha, let the games begin. We still had good rapport, and I was showing an interest in her uni work, helping her where I could, when I had some spare time. (I help everyone anyway, so that's not out of character) Anyway she was struggling with an assignment, and I was going to be 5 mins from where she lived at a dinner, so I told her I'd come over after that. Anyway, I helped her out, during which she brushed my arm 'accidentally' a couple of times at the computer. (Note to everyone: if a girl isn't the touchy feely type brushing you a couple of times in the space of 10 seconds is probably NOT accidental.) I cruised, giving her a kiss on the cheek on the way out, but left my mobile there so went back to get it after getting 2 mins down the road. Knocked on the door, she opened it, smile on her face, with the mobile in her hand and asked "How on earth did you forget your phone?" I got quite close to her, looked her dead in the eye and said with a smile "hmmm Sigmend Freud might have something to say about that..." She grabbed me and a 10 min makeout session ensued before being pushed out of the doorway with a rock hard d**k. Goddamn!!
Well by this stage I was onto her game, starve her of attention she blows up my phone, get too close she backs off (f**king young girls and their games) The next Saturday I told her "I'll come over with a DVD when you finish work, we'll chill" to which she agrees. I already know she's going to flake at this point so I made other plans as well. Sure enough, she cancels with the "My friends coming over and I haven't seen her in ages" excuse. I laugh it off saying "no worries." Haha so predictable.
Anyway, as strange as it may sound, I was waiting for that opportunity to apply a bit of So Suave game. When I saw her next on Monday, I was polite and friendly, but didn't stop for the usual chat. I also got out of there while she wasnt on reception, to which I got a predictable SMS 15 mins later:
HBhottie: "You left without saying goodbye, I'm devastated"
Un-Aru: "Na, you might try and jump me and have your wicked way with me. I'm not that easy."
HBhottie: "Haha you have a wild imagination. It takes more than a hot bod to get me"
Un-Aru: "Lucky then I've also got wit, charm and general decency (key value elicited from previous conversation weeks ago) Haha and modesty too... probably see you tomorrow"
Well I do see her the next day but I am running late so literally have only time to say hi and bye. The next day however is where I really laid the game on. I strolled into where she works...
HBhottie: "When you're done are you going to come talk to me?" (expectant puppy dog look on face)
Un-Aru: "Haha, you diss me on Saturday night, and NOW you expect some attention. That's not how it works sweetie" (all with sly grin on my face)
HBhottie: "But 'm lonely out here"
Un-Aru: "Haha well you should have thought about that before you cancelled on me" (still with sly grin)
Key point: words are saying "I don't tolerate disrespect", tone and body language is saying "I'm just fooling with you." End result, she doesn't know where she stands, gets confused and starts thinking about you even more.
I didn't see her, talk to her or text her for a few days after that, she must have been going mad thinking things over. That very weekend I got the "Come over and I'll make you dinner" phone call, and the similarly predictable "Wanna see some photos - they're in my bedroom." Note to everyone - if this occurs, she wants you, but YOU have to make the move (especially on young girls) Game, set, match... Un-Aru
1. I'm sure everyone needs a break from "how do I get this girl?" threads once in a while
2. There's some great tips in there
3. It's a funny story in it's own right
A while ago I met a receptionist (HBhottie) who's an incredible 19yr old hottie, sweet and going to uni. Anyway, to be honest I didn't really notice her at the beginning, I was building fantastic rapport with a few of her co-workers, bit of flirting, half hour convo's after a workout maybe two or three days a week. However they had BF's, so realistically I wasn't really gunning for them, just enjoying the fluff. They thought I was great, and told as much so many times. (lesson here - if your target is even remotely attracted to you, and her friends adore you, you're in...) HBhottie was there as well, and though a little reserved (but still friendly) at first, she started to really open up over the space of a month or so.
Now HBhottie really came on to my radar when one day I was chatting to her and discovered we both had a love of books and art. Two days later I showed her examples of what I had done - interest level escalated right there. The next day she called me (had tracked my number down) and we went for dinner. Had her laughing and generally had a good time but body language was off somehow so didn't move in for the kill. (yes I know - wuss) Interestingly enough 3 days earlier I had busted a superb line on one of her co-workers (a model and a cool chick to boot) who I had built great rapport with. She had been telling me about this great guy she had just started seeing when I said
Un-Aru: "Hmmm, you're really into him, that's gonna make things awkward." HBmodel: "why?"
Un-Aru: "When I take you out to dinner.."
She had a blank stare and stammered for a few seconds (and she is the queen of wit) then said "If it doesn't work out with him, hell yeah" Haha good stuff.
Anyway, asked HBhottie out twice during the next week or so, to which I got the classic response of "We'll see." Haha, let the games begin. We still had good rapport, and I was showing an interest in her uni work, helping her where I could, when I had some spare time. (I help everyone anyway, so that's not out of character) Anyway she was struggling with an assignment, and I was going to be 5 mins from where she lived at a dinner, so I told her I'd come over after that. Anyway, I helped her out, during which she brushed my arm 'accidentally' a couple of times at the computer. (Note to everyone: if a girl isn't the touchy feely type brushing you a couple of times in the space of 10 seconds is probably NOT accidental.) I cruised, giving her a kiss on the cheek on the way out, but left my mobile there so went back to get it after getting 2 mins down the road. Knocked on the door, she opened it, smile on her face, with the mobile in her hand and asked "How on earth did you forget your phone?" I got quite close to her, looked her dead in the eye and said with a smile "hmmm Sigmend Freud might have something to say about that..." She grabbed me and a 10 min makeout session ensued before being pushed out of the doorway with a rock hard d**k. Goddamn!!
Well by this stage I was onto her game, starve her of attention she blows up my phone, get too close she backs off (f**king young girls and their games) The next Saturday I told her "I'll come over with a DVD when you finish work, we'll chill" to which she agrees. I already know she's going to flake at this point so I made other plans as well. Sure enough, she cancels with the "My friends coming over and I haven't seen her in ages" excuse. I laugh it off saying "no worries." Haha so predictable.
Anyway, as strange as it may sound, I was waiting for that opportunity to apply a bit of So Suave game. When I saw her next on Monday, I was polite and friendly, but didn't stop for the usual chat. I also got out of there while she wasnt on reception, to which I got a predictable SMS 15 mins later:
HBhottie: "You left without saying goodbye, I'm devastated"
Un-Aru: "Na, you might try and jump me and have your wicked way with me. I'm not that easy."
HBhottie: "Haha you have a wild imagination. It takes more than a hot bod to get me"
Un-Aru: "Lucky then I've also got wit, charm and general decency (key value elicited from previous conversation weeks ago) Haha and modesty too... probably see you tomorrow"
Well I do see her the next day but I am running late so literally have only time to say hi and bye. The next day however is where I really laid the game on. I strolled into where she works...
HBhottie: "When you're done are you going to come talk to me?" (expectant puppy dog look on face)
Un-Aru: "Haha, you diss me on Saturday night, and NOW you expect some attention. That's not how it works sweetie" (all with sly grin on my face)
HBhottie: "But 'm lonely out here"
Un-Aru: "Haha well you should have thought about that before you cancelled on me" (still with sly grin)
Key point: words are saying "I don't tolerate disrespect", tone and body language is saying "I'm just fooling with you." End result, she doesn't know where she stands, gets confused and starts thinking about you even more.
I didn't see her, talk to her or text her for a few days after that, she must have been going mad thinking things over. That very weekend I got the "Come over and I'll make you dinner" phone call, and the similarly predictable "Wanna see some photos - they're in my bedroom." Note to everyone - if this occurs, she wants you, but YOU have to make the move (especially on young girls) Game, set, match... Un-Aru
