"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Snowball

Krassus

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Eh... i feel kinda lame writing an FR for a 45-minute sarge, but i feel like writing something, so this might as well be it.

Walking past the juice bar at Eatons, i noticed that they've got a huge pile of snow/ice on the counter to use for drinks. I grabbed a handful and made a snowball out of it. Told myself that i'm gonna approach the first hottie i see and challenge her to a snowball fight. With me having the only snowball in a 1000-mile radius, this would be quite entertaining

A minute later, i saw one watching the fountain. I actually walked 20 feet past her as i was trying to catch a glimpse of her face. She looked promising from the back, but ya never know. Finally, i was convinced. I was happy to have found a girl i liked, as i was actually on my way out after a half-hour of pointless walking.

So i walked up behind her and gave her a pat on the left shoulder. She quickly turned, but by then i was already standing on her right. Haha, she seemed pretty startled. Note to self: chicks don't expect to be touched by random strangers. Not that this is anything new, but i still do it. Somehow, it feels natural to touch girls right off the bat and i refuse to change.

Her: Why did you...
Me: What?
Her: Why did you do that?
Me: Do what?
Her: Touch me...
Me: Because i like you
Her: Oh

Yea, so 15 minutes later i walked off with her number. Columbian lawyer, about an 8.3 on my scale, or 9.8 on ASF scale, since everyone always adds 1.5-2 points for reasons unknown. Anyway, not much "technique" here. Very direct opener, natural game, attraction via natural C&F and P&P, she seeked rapport, asked for my number, i offered to trade. Verified on the spot. Done and done, good fun.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pimp stuff.

Why didn't you go further? Maybe see if she wanted to kick it with you longer or go back to your place?

-Dominant
 

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I was with my friend, who kindly got lost when i approached her :) But then he called and i had to go.
 

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Day 2 went very well. We kissed :) Serious LTR potential. Unfortunately, i've already got an MLTR. That and summer's coming up (meaning lots of easy sex). All that considered, i'm not exactly in too much of a hurry to get into an LTR. We'll see what happens. Stay tuned.
 
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