"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: Short approach.. (nothing really)

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I went outside today.. there is a park a couple of blocks away from where i live so i decided to go there and hang out.. i was on my way when i saw a HB7. I said, screw it, let's get it on..Iwent up to her and asked her if she knew where (name of a certain place) was.. she said "you gotta' go straight from where you are heading to, take the hill and you'll see the diner.." and so on.. so then i said "that's too much info, why don't you take me there?" and she told me she would but it's too far and she gotta go meet up with someone, so i told her "alright then" (i didn't feel that happy about saying it)..anyway, after i asked her if she used to go to this HS, and said "yea for a while and i left" and i asked why and it went on.. and then we ended off.

I skipped alot of parts because i didn't really learn anything
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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