FR:Second Night Lay(Online)

[Crissco]

Happened about a week ago, but only got around to posting it now.

Met this 31 year old hottie on OkCupid. Im 24. First day we hung out it was by my place. We watched a movie in my room, kissed a little bit and cuddled. First date technically, she told me she waits a month to **** a guy...etc

I said to me self I got this. Second date comes around, 2 days later. My house again.

We cuddle a bit, I show her a picture of my baby cousin when she first got here, told her funny storys, DHVed a bit here and there. Then we went to the den to drink a little wine and watch a movie, we get close and cuddle and kiss again, i started rubbing her legs and got close to her ***** through her underwear, she pulled me away, I blew it off, no problem. Started rubbing her legs more, can tell she was getting turned on, I tried to go through her underwear to rub her again.

This time it worked, I kept rubbing her ***** through her underwear, then i moved it aside and started to rub her ****, finger her a bit, making out, all that good stuff.

I told her lets go upstairs, she follows me upstairs. I picked her up put her on the bed. Started to slip her dress off.

Kiss her body, pulling her underwear off and start eating her out. She was surprised i went down on her. Got me laughing and went down on her again.

Pulled her underwear off, started moving up and kissed her body, rubbed my **** on her **** for a bit to get her wetter then shoved it in and and started to ****, we went at it for a while, got her cumming..then i was about to ***, i pulled out, layed down had her blow me and came in her mouth, she swallowed the whole load


Overall got a problem here though....I had a good time but shes looking for a relashionship and wants to date me. Her father asked her today whos she dating and she mentioned my name(Her father is actually my cousins landscaper)(Small world huh)

We only hung out twice and she alreadys wants to date, dont know what i do to these women but this wouldnt be the first time. Honestly I wouldnt mind dating this girl but I dont want kids or get married at this point in my life and i see that she does.

And I got laid from her last night too(1/28)

 

[Rubato]

Well bro, figure out what you want. You said it... "I wouldn't mind dating this girl, BUT..."

Dude, you had sex with this girl once and have hunt out twice. Forget this future talk. And don't buy in to it if she throws it at you. Her words obviously don't mean much ("I don't have sex till blah blah blah").

I would highly recommend that if you do date her, your definition of date means she is a plate that you're spinning along with other plates. You continue to have sex with her, but you're also actively gaming other women. You do not have anywhere near enough information to accurately determine whether this woman is worthy of your exclusive attention. You found something that looks easy. Don't just settle for it. What comes easily goes easily and often has little value.

And if you're worried about hurting her... love is a tough game. She shouldn't have let you take off her dress if she didn't want to play.

 

[Crissco]

This was about a week ago(Posted it on another forum but forgot to here, copy and paste from a week ago), since last night i came to the conclusion im NOT going to date her, im going to end it with her completely, i see her becoming a future clinger so in the end its not worth it, especially when theres tons of other girls out there. And FYI we fu*ked 4 times in the past week..lol

 

[runner83]

Good work mate.

Don't let her pressure you into getting committed if that's not what you're looking for.

Play the game on your own terms and no one elses.

 

[Crissco]

Good work mate.

Don't let her pressure you into getting committed if that's not what you're looking for.

Play the game on your own terms and no one elses.

Exactly brotha. Truth is its not that I don't want a relationship. It's that i don't want one with her. Came to realize how messed up she is. There's a reason shes 31 on a dating site and single.